Ever heard the story about the 2 donkeys? They each had a burden weighing 20 pounds, but one was of salt and the other of cotton. The one carrying the cotton complained that his burden was so much bigger. Then they came to a river, and the one carrying the salt went in and all the salt dissolved and he came out with no burden at all. The one with the cotton followed, and the cotton soaked up the water.... and he drowned. Moral: don't copy someone just because they look like they got it easy.