I know its long! but without detail the story isn't right! HELP!

[sherryberry3255]

Once upon a time, when i was 14, I met this boy who was 16. Me and my friend met him, i should say. We were, you know, just fooling around being girls making up lies about this and that, not taking him seriously obviously. We made up all sorts of retarded ****, because lets face it, 14 year old girls don't have huge lives. Well, at least we didn't ha. We told him we were 16 too, because we thought we were trying to be cool....fail. Anyways, one time i talked to him alone, without my friend, and it was at least 6 am until i got to sleep. My friend quickly forgot, but i stayed talking with him. We used to ask each other everything and we became really really close. He calls me usually every night before bed, we skype, and i've even chatted with his mom haha. she's a very nice lady. Back to the present, I'm 16 now, he's 18, and he thinks i'm 18 too. We never really talked about age until i realized it had been so long, that id look straight out of the psych ward if i had to explain why i lied and never told him. I basically just went along, which clearly was a stupid idea. I'm going to visit him this summer, should i tell him now? or should i wait? or is this whole situation just ******? Some advice would be nice. Thanks in advance

[Sqad]

Your age is now, no big deal, of minor interest and won´t make the slightest bit of difference to the way he thinks about you. Tell him when you feel like it.

[daffy654]

Are you in the UK sherry? I ask because you refer to his mother as his "mom" which isn't a common use here in the UK, you also refer to "this summer", which has been and gone here.
Any advice would be relevant to where in the world you live due to the differences in the age of consent worldwide. 16 is legal in the UK but not in many other countries.

[Bbbananas]

Like sqad, at this stage I don't think he'll give a monkeys.....

[daffy654]

He will definitely give a monkeys if they are in the USA salla, he may well be expecting an 18 year old girl to turn up who he can have sex with, if she is 16 and doesn't tell him (and they have sex) he is at risk of prosecution for statutory rape.
Of course, we have no idea where they both hail from yet so it could be a moot point :)

[Bbbananas]

Oh I see now daffy - sorry, didn't read it all properly - I had assumed she was in the UK.

[milly143]

Did you meet him on the internet? If so, how do you know he is really 18?

[muppeteer]

when you see him & are mid conversation, just sheepishly grin & say 'oh by the way...ive got a bit of a confession...you know how when we met i said i was 18?' & just take it from there.
i met somone who lied about their age. we ended up together for 8 years & i found out by accident. i would have understood if they had come clean with an explanation like yours