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Ex-boyfriend mixed signals
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I broke up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago and we stayed friends. When we're together we are quite close but I am confused as he compliments me, says I'm hot and I'm great. Of course this is all very nice for me but confusing and frustrating. I don't compliment him in that way because I think it would be a bit odd considering what's going on - is he just leading me on? And why - he's not getting anything out of it?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Yes, I do sometimes regret it but am very worried that he, as woofgang says, just wants me on a string again. I don't feel comfortable asking if he wants to reconcile because I would be put in the position of pushing him into having to say something...I'd rather that he asked me. If the friendship continues like this I think I will just become more and more anxious about it - so thinking it best to end the whole thing for fear of getting hurt a second time? thanks for the advice.
Perhaps you could talk to him and tell him that he is giving out mixed signals regarding where your friendship is going. Tell him the reasons why you broke it off and see what he says.
You never know, he could be missing you terribly, but he's scared to tell you how he feels for fear of rejection. I wouldn't go ejecting him from your life completely and unnecessarily without first talking things through with him. And least if you talk without actually putting him on the spot, you'll know how he feels and you can then act accordingly.
You never know, he could be missing you terribly, but he's scared to tell you how he feels for fear of rejection. I wouldn't go ejecting him from your life completely and unnecessarily without first talking things through with him. And least if you talk without actually putting him on the spot, you'll know how he feels and you can then act accordingly.