does he like me?

[barclay]

Ive pulled this guy on a few occasions, and I thought he quite liked me. He told all his friends he liked me! Then recently after we pulled again, he was very off with me afterward! Ive seen him around and he struggles to say hello to me! My mates think its because im a little older than him ( im 25 he 20 ) and that he might have lost his virginity to me! I on the other hand think he just doesnt fancy me any more. I use to get the odd phone call or txt when he was drunk asking if i was out! Do you just think its a drunken thing, and anyone with a pulse will do! Why do I always fall for the guys that stop liking me back?   

[stevie21]

I tend to find that it's impossible to second guess what other people are thinking. It's easy for me to say but you could just ask him outright and ask him to be completely honest.

[Scarlett]

He seem really really immature. He is acting like a 15 year old boy. Ditch him and get yourself a real (older?) man!

[Octavius]

Maybe those guys know that after a few drinks you're a good time gal.

Move on and find someone more mature and ignore the txts & phone messages from the men who are only after the thing you seem to be providing.

[mash]

your all very quick to right him off! It could be that his friends influence him alot and his age doesn't help him make the right decisions. I suggest you get him on his own, some where he is happy to meet and after making him feel comfortable ask him what the situation is. You'll get a much better answer without friends or drink involved!

[purification]

yeah I don't want to make generalisation or second guess someones thoughts or motives but if he only text or rang when he was drunk that's either shyness or he was purely only after a quick fumble.

It's hard to pass judgement, every one is different.  

Take control and just confront him, nicely of course. He may find you hard to approach because you are the older woman in the situation. To him you maybe unobtainable and he only plucks up the courage when he and you are both drunk!

If he leaves before dawn every time then he's either (a)  a vampire??? (b) already in a relationship (c) has a very busy life (d) Prob still lives with ma and pa and still can't stay out (mummys boy???) (e) was only after one thing (f) shy (g) ermm....knows not to see what women really look like in the morning!!

But also remember he is only 20, do you think he would want the same kind of relationship as you?