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ads_uk | 18:09 Tue 26th Apr 2011 | Relationships & Dating
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I finally met someone so special from an online dating site, we have ended up speaking about a future as we have so much in common ect (I know crazy)

Today, about 3pm a bunch of flowers was delivered to her work place (im a soppy git) but i havent heard a thing from her, not even a text to say thanks etc... should i be worried??
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thats why you sent the flowers isn't it? You knew i' gone a bit sour?
20:59 Tue 26th Apr 2011
Perhaps she wasn't at work....? Perhaps it embarrassed her. TBH it would me, I like to keep work things very separate from home. Ring her and ask her.
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Too nervous to ask her....
I know she was at work as I text about lunch time - asking how her day was going..
have you actually met?
What sort of place does she work? would she actually have received them? if there was a soppy message, perhaps her workmates have ribbed her about it. Mine would.
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Yeah we've met...
She works at a salon where theres only 3-4 other people.
no soppy message - just a thinking of you
Maybe she doesn't actually feel same way as you do..........words are cheap
Did you check the address of her work, maybe they were delivered to someone else ?? I would put yourself out of your misery and phone her or text her at least....
getting flowers at work can be really embarrassing. maybe you need to take it easy.
flowers aren't always cheap, joeluke!
Yeah I know they are sara, did you get that expensive bunch I sent you by the way?
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telling me they aint cheap - jesus if it hits a nerve then what a cock up,, if all ok then £40 well spent.
she'll be fine, just maybe a bit embarrassed. I've had to "explain" flowers twice at work, and I was very embarrassed.

joeluke, of course not!
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shes the manager there so....
I for one love receiving flowers at work ! RING HER ! We cant tell you what her reaction is/was.....you need to find out for yourself, go for it, you need to know one way or the other....
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im just a fool in love. (damn it did i really jus say that?)
wots the worst that could happen eh?
The worst is that you have wasted £40. She should have acknowledged your thoughtfulness.
How long has it been since your initial contact and first meeting?

I am being cynical - it may be that you will both have a long future together.
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honestly - a month.
should of spent the weekend with her - but wen i was lying next to her sunday morning her friend txted - shed split from her chap. So she was quite worried about her mate, asked if i would mind if she went to see her mate instead - of which i didnt mind at all... all i said was "we gonna have pleanty more weekends together..."
Aaaah, the old 'text me so I can escape' routine huh?

She's playing you
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key phrase there was "we were lying next to each other" -- her bed

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