I know its been a few weeks... but

[ads_uk]

I finally met someone so special from an online dating site, we have ended up speaking about a future as we have so much in common ect (I know crazy)

Today, about 3pm a bunch of flowers was delivered to her work place (im a soppy git) but i havent heard a thing from her, not even a text to say thanks etc... should i be worried??

[albaqwerty]

re-read joe's post.

Sorry mate, looks like she is not the one (I hope I'm wrong tho)

[micmak]

May I join the cynics and say ads_uk is a newbie, or am I too cynical?

[sara3]

it's a fair point, micmak, plus an unusual username to choose to post such a question!

[ads_uk]

yep newbie. and i dont get wot u mean with the my question and username?

[DTCwordfan]

she is camping out on Pall Mall waiting for the wedding - should have had the flowers delivered there. Hope there was no ring embedded in the greenery....

[Purple_Popple]

Not sure why he is wasting his time ion here with us, instead of just contacting her....

[albaqwerty]

ads, if you texted her at lunchtime, she could have been anywhere...

[China Doll]

The last time you saw her was a month ago? Sorry mate, don't think this is going anywhere.

[whiskeysheri]

Did the card with them say they were from you? If not, she might be worried about embarrassing you in case you hadn't sent them. Not to imply another bloke had, but anyone else...

[supersuezy24]

I worked with a girl who went on one date with a guy, the next day at work she received a HUGE bouquet of flowers, she was not impressed, she was mortified, didn't want anyone in work knowing about her private life, which I can understand.

[factor-fiction]

Maybe I was wrong- I was expecting this to turmn into an ad for this on-line dating site.

I'm not sure why anyone would join AB just to tell us about this, but I suppose we all had to start somewhere on here.

Why not text her

[boxtops]

No CD, he only MET her a month ago...

[NOX]

Excuse me for being a thick bloke here, but why would anyone be embarassed because someone had done something nice for them? I would really worry about anyone who found recieving flowers at work horrible in some way. I've never had flowers recieved badly and tbh it never occured to me that they could be. Just because you recieve flowers doesn't mean you have to bare your soul to your colleagues, or does it, am I missing something?

[ads_uk]

a female friend pointed me to this site -- she said shes had some great advice in past

[boxtops]

It depends who you work with, NOX, and how much you keep your private life separate from your work life.

[China Doll]

Ahhhhh... I see.... cheers for the clarity boxy, I was beginning to wonder!

[joeluke]

It takes a few seconds to send a simple text, it's the very least that 40 quids worth of flowers deserves

I'd have called her by now and asked if she liked the flowers, at least you'd find out where you stand

[sara3]

it's always possible that they weren't delivered..

why haven't you phoned/texted her?

[ads_uk]

yeah txt her at 7.30 as thats wen i know she's on a bus home.
she replied bout 10mins ago:

HER: Thank you for flowers
ME: Ure welcome.. sorry if it embarrassed you. Ru ok?
HER: Just got in am of to bed got terrible head!
ME: Wish something I cud do x
HER: I'm fine.
ME: Sleep well x

and now she's popped up on FB chat as online :(
its not looking good for me is it.

[237SJ]

ads-uk I`m always a bit sceptical when I see a post from someone on here who has never posted before. If you want an honest opinion I would ask your friends if I was you. You won`t get an honest, impartial response here. You will get cynicism. I have had flowers from someone who I had not been out with (but I fancied him madly) and I have had flowers from someone I had not been out with that I didn`t fancy (despite his efforts at phoning my mother to try to get her to persuade me)! I`m sure your flowers will be appreciated but if she`s interested you will hear about it. If she`s not then don`t push it, there is nothing worse than a lovelorn man.