Dear Poster, He is doing this to you because he can. He likes you because you tolerate him being in the room of a girl on a hen night, and even taunts you with this info - to get a reaction! You make up with him when he has treated you badly. You are always there for him no matter how badly he treats you, ignores you etc. Time to harden up a bit or this sorry state will drag on for years. We have all been there and are no better than you. Just wiser once we faced up to the truth. Good luck.