Ok me and my girlfriend where talking and i told her that when she is irritated or aggravated or something bothering her she tends to say one word and sound not interested and idk when she is irritated or aggravated and something is bothering her so it makes me feel bad and not a good boyfriend. and besides when i ask she says everything is fine or there's nothing to talk about and i'm going to sleep it off. so when i ask her any of these three things she gets irritated and acts like she doesn't care. but then a day later she's over it , but i can tell she's still thinking about it. so then i told her all i want is more of your time and tell me when something is bothering you. and when we talk or text she never puts any effort to ask questions than wyd , how was your day. and i'm always has to say i love you first and initiate things first she does it sometimes but its mostly me.i love this with all my heart and so she love me but whats up with her, everytime i try to talk about in a calm fashion gets irritated. shes very mature but idk whats up. p.s we've been going out for 8 1/2 months now
Cool it with her noober, if she really cares about you let her do running, if she can't be bothered tough, look out for somebody else. I don't know how old you are but there is loads of time to settle on one girl. Play the field a bit before you get heavy with just one.
I think your avatar name says it all. You both need to grow up a little. some people like not discussing every little detail about their worries. So, you have been going out for 8 1/2 months and are still asking her how her day is....there are other women in the world who would appreciate you for this thoughtfulness. Boot her into touch!