How Do I Tell My Boyfriend Im Pregnant

[Nay37]

My bf and I have been together 5 and a half years now and he has always said he doesnt want children. I fell pregnant 3 yrs ago bit had an abortion because he was in the middle of his accountancy exams n baby would've been due the day of one of the exams and he said he would've wanted to be at the birth. I have just found out Im pregnant again and am scared to tell him. I dont think I could go through another abortion as I am 38 and this could be my last chance to have another child. I have a 11yr old son from a previous marriage who never sees his father because he doesnt want to know. I dont want to end up alone again with 2 kids. It was hard enough the first time round. What do i do?

[murraymints]

nay..hate to say this ..it is make your mind up time...do you really want to stay in this volatile relationship any longer..brooding resentment will ultimately break you up anyway... how much do you want another baby ..do you think you want it to try and save a relationship which is already at best very unstable, or do you want a baby for you ? you have to listen to your head not your heart...I know what i'd do....good luck !

[ummmm]

I agree with Cazzz. His reaction isn't surprising. He didn't make a secret of the fact that he didn't want a baby.

Murray - what has Nay said that makes you think the relationship is volatile?

[murraymints]

past posts ummmm...

[saintpeter48]

have the baby and get rid of this selfish loser, i bet he was a mummys boy before you came along and probably an only child.

[murraymints]

unstable may have been a better word to use...