My Boyfriend Cant Get An Erection

[SpiritLady]

im looking for some help/ideas on this. its a new relationship (we have been friends for months) and i stayed over at his place (we both knew nothing could happen as such as im not taking any contraceptive at the moment) but there was nothing ... no touching or anything ... i thought 'ok thats fine because maybe if foreplay started then we wouldnt have been able to stop so this was a good thing'.
we then spoke the following morning and he told me he had no 'stirring' or 'twitching' at all during our kissing session the night before whilst in bed. he then tells me that he hasnt had an erection for around 12/18 months (2 years since last relationship where he was sexually active). he says he has tried masturbating and watching porn but he cant seem to get an erection. he says he has the mental thoughts/interest, he wants to have sex with me and finds me attractive but, because he hasnt 'needed' an erection in the recent past he hadnt really thought about the physical problem.
so ... does anyone have any ideas if 'we' can do something to rectify this or is it likely to be a medical problem?

[Buenchico]

Start here
http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Erectile-dysfunction/Pages/Introduction.aspx
and click through the links (Symptoms/Causes/Diagnosis/Treatment)

[venator]

This is so sad. You sound like decent people.
There is counselling out there if you look for it. Just Google
You are not alone - your difficulty is not unique

[SpiritLady]

thank you guys. i will check out that link now. we are both hoping its going to be something more of a 'mental block' type thing that we can sort ourselves but if it turns out to be medical then we will have to deal with it :)

[Sycamore3House]

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[Sqad]

This is almost ALWAYS a mental problem and sex counselling is probably your best option, although not a popular or developed speciality in the UK.

Talk to your GP about Caverject injections.

[WELSHYORKIE]

See GP and ask for sildenafil tabs - work a treat and not expensive