Sent Pics To Wrong Person. What To Do?

[suzperez]

I sent naked pics to my boyfriend of 2 years on his bday only to find out I actually sent them to another guy instead. Both my bf and the guy are saved with just first names in my phone. I don't know the guy that well and I'm embarrassed because they were very explicit and full frontal. And like showing off what I got and what not. He deleted them (I made sure) but I don't want him telling people details about what he saw... What should I say to him? Or should I have my boyfriend say something instead?

[woofgang]

what did you say when you asked him to delete them?

[Mamyalynne]

You'll just have to place your confidence in him and tell your boyfriend of your mistake in case.

[Gavmacp]

Never record anything you wouldn't want your parents to see!

[Peter Pedant]

you have clearly been thinking about it for some time
I would wait and see

[EDDIE51]

How can you be sure he deleted them ? You can't is the answer, he could have forwarded them to his mates or put them on U tube. Even if he has deleted them you can not be sure he did not make a copy first !

[RATTER15]

Eddie. I don't think YouTube allows nudity.

[Khandro]

Hello, as it's your first question on your first day of joining AB, you may well be seriously troubled by your existential problem, but alas I can't see you can do other than wait and think.

[EDDIE51]

OK But there are many sites that do and pay you cash for the photos!

[jomifl]

/I don't think YouTube allows nudity./

which version have you got?

[JackDanielsU]

The old..oops i sent them to the wrong person excuse.

You dont know the guy that well...but have his first name only in your phone?
You like showing off what youve got...so is this some childish attempt to make you boyfriend jealous by letting this "stranger" see you in the nude?

You know what you did, so live with any consequences that may arise

[hc4361]

If he does show them to anyone or tell anyone about them you'll just have to laugh it off. As you say you like showing off and you've certainly done that! Kicking up a fuss will just make the situation worse.

Just make sure your bf knows what has happened.

[Mamyalynne]

I have no idea how the hell you think that is helpful!

[vetuste_ennemi]

Khandro as agony aunt! He must be feeling better.

[Old_Geezer]

Details about what he saw ? What's the unique details you have that other women don't that's so important that he keeps to himself ?

So what do you think your boyfriend should say to him ? No thinking about my girl's bits or else ?

Move on from the incident. You can't change the past but you can accept and come to terms with it.

[TheChair]

"Both my bf and the guy are saved with just first names in my phone"
if that's the case, the iPhone must have the only contacts file that allows multiple contacts all with identical names.

[IggyB]

IPhone isn't the only mobile manufacturer. I have an android and have accidently created contacts with the same name for different people.

Anyway, there isn't much you can do. You've obviously spoken to him now you have to try and trust him. I would recommend you tell your bf what happened just in case.

[Khandro]

v_e; //Khandro as agony aunt! He must be feeling better.//

An agony aunt with a difference; - it is I who bears the agony!

[Samuraisan]

Oops !