am I in love

[myishealuvs?]

me and my boyfriend have benn going out for 3 months now and my mom or sister doesn't like him and she thinks that were just friends but now that she sees we talk to eachother alot she doesn't want me to talk him but my feelings for him wont let me stop talking to him . I might just be 14 but i know how i feel and i know that its real. I just question how he feels about me.

[katangel26]

If you question how he feels about you then why are you with him? Is there any particular reason why your mum doesn't like him that she hasn't told you about?

[fo3nix]

If you ever question yourself to find out if you love someone, chances are you don't. If you do, you'd just know.

So, unless your mum has a good reason for no liking him (maybe he's an axe-weilding maniac?), just stay with him and have a good time. If it develops more, than your feelings can only grow. If not, and it ends, then he wasn't that right for you in the first place.

[woodchopper]

They say love is blind - maybe you can't see the bigger picture due to your feelings.

[Trillipse]

a) these things are rarely resolved by asking other people for their opinion. i have no doubt that you will do what you feel, regardless of alternative views.

despite which, i would advise you to try to look at the situation rationally -

i) try to find out why you feel the need to ask other people for their views on what your feelings may or may not be

ii) what will be the consequences (what are you planning to do about it) if you decide you love him? are you planning to make big decisions and take action based on whether or not you love him? this is the main thing. believing that you love him or not is harmless either way, until that belief makes you act a certain way and make certain choices about how you will behave. until you act on it, you don't have a problem. try not to focus on what you may or may not believe, or what other people would have you believe, but instead focus on any courses of action that this might cause you to take. love is fine until it makes people do things out of the ordinary. when it does, it has the potential to damage... or improve... your life.

[br0adwaybabe]

i totally know were your coming from my bf's parents HATE ME but i believe we r in love wut ****** me off is when people say o u cant love at a yound age.. i may be 16 but i do believe i love this boy aka my bf. if u r questioning wheather u like him u might not. it depends this sounds cheesy but if in ur heart u believe you love him then i think you love him. if u want to know how he feels i would just wait if hes your bf then obviously likes u. if he loves you to he will probablly tell you sooner or later ;)

[myishealuvs?]

Thank you for all your help. I wasn't trying to question my love for him i kno i love him it just came out the wrong way.

And your right she probably has her reasons but just havn't told me. But now shes starting to give in since we talk alot more. The first time he told me he love he was like.
"I think i've fallen in a big way" I just thought i was to young until i realized i had mad fellings for him.

Thanks to ya'll I think i can get through it