Hello sash, yes it is to big a gap,she should be going out with me. xxx
Seriously sash,if she enjoys his company why not, as long as she don't end up paying for everything,students are always broke,and they sit in a pub for 5 hours with half a lager and they don't change there socks or pants.
sadly, ray is spot-on about student living habits. You would be doing the workd a favour if you took him on and civilised him a bit, encouraging him to wash the occasional dish (mothers invariably forget to explain this to sons). Anyway, yes, if you like him, why not? But get to know his friends too; it's just possible they would give him a hard time about falling for an older woman, but that's just jealousy.
No I dont think so I know a couple who got together he was 17 and she was 26, 10 years on they still together and just had a kid. Age doesnt come into it providing you take the time to get to know each other first.
I'd just like to say that no it isn't a big gap, as long as you guys get on ok, then why not?
And for the people who commented on student's living habits, you better not be talking about all students, I'm 23 y.o. student and own my own home, car and hold down a job whilst studying in my 3rd year, thank you very much! we're not all lay-abouts!
Im my experience (sorry guys) boys mature later than girls, if you have already experienced a time when you could cringe with his immiturity then I think you have your answer.
No not all students gill3891, mainly the young lads,we know everybodys different, but I know from working in student accomodation how gross most of the blokes are,they hardly ever wash a dish,NEVER clean the washbasin or bath or toilet, and pants and socks when they are changed are left to fester on the floor.
Just be careful that your not a game, 20 years old is still very young and he will possibly be using you to show off to his mates, especially if you are very attractive, what is it you see in him? Is he mature for his age? are you sure or could it be an act... young men have a habit of 'playing' games with women as they think it makes them studs, they will lie about anything for a stupid lenght of time just to f*ck them... so just be careful.
On paper, it cant hurt and it might be fun, just be aware of how young he actually is.