what's wrong?

[averagejoe]

i'm a normal guy not ugly or so i think or particularly shy but i just can't seem to get any intrest from the ladies what am i doing wrong?

[sam100]

Awww bless you averagejoe!!!!

Maybe your just not looking in the right places???

[ConfusedMum]

all good things come to those who wait, love finds you when you aint looking! :D

xxx

[Llamatron]

I've not been looking for a long time and I'm still waiting.

[Goodsoulette]

Do you show any interest in the ladies?

[caz247]

what makes you think you are doing anything wrong
what age are you?
love comes when you least expect it or so ive been
told although i am still single lol

caz x

[joanne713]

can we have a description or even better, a picture?

[Goodsoulette]

Ooh... then maybe all the interested AB ladies can submit their pics and we can have a little update on your romancing. far more entertaining than celebrity big brother.

[Athley]

Yes a picture please would be great. We can all give you a proper assessment then.

You don't seem to have a very high opinion of yourself ie by calling yourself 'averagejoe' for a start off!!

More info :o)

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i am waiting for the answer too...
Come on women

[ummmm1]

This is hard one. Do you try too hard

Or not hard enough

lol

you cant win

bless

[chicklin]

Having a sense of humour is good. And a nice smile. Being a good listener goes down well. Be clean. Don't talk crap. Show interest in her. Ask questions and listen to the answers. Remember her name. Don't get pi**ed or stoned on the first date. Don't act desperate - desperate is scary. Don't pick your nose. Try not to f*rt in front of her. If you do - don't laugh. Just be good fun to be around and then someone will want to be around you! Good Luck

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i think i have a great sense of humour, and a nice smile. I never act desperate,i always act like i dont care. I never get pssed or stoned and i make sure i dont fart in her face. I suppose i do pick my nose though sometimes. Are you sure its not my looks?

[ummmm1]

lol.....I'm sure you're good looking Mr Ben....

But have you tried farting in a girls face????....you never know until you try it!!!

[MrBen5]

Never on a first date ummmm, only when i have known her a while...

[jhosking1981]

You have to stop looking or stop thinking about meeting anyone, get on with other things in your life. You'll find then your perfect partner will walk right into your life when you are very least expecting it!

[chicklin]

MrBen - Perhaps the 'don't care' act is too convincing. Or you overdo the 'male ch.....p*g bit? But if the other two were right, us women would probably manage to ignore the fact that you are facially challenged - we're pretty forgiving on the whole of the shortcomings of men! :- ) Nose picking isn't nice tho' - that's a real no-no.

[MrBen5]

Yeah, but i have been doing that for the last 5 years. Also, i dont like surprises. I dont want her to just walk into my life. I want her to come into my life through the right channels.

[MrBen5]

Ahh so chicklin, it seems you have suffered a bad experience with noce picking. Anything you would like to share with the rest of us?

[chicklin]

noce??!!

[MrBen5]

i mean nose, i am getting a little tired now :(