I'm not able to get over him on my own.

[AllyWally00]

My ex and me of 2 years broke up about 7-8 months ago. I cheated on him 3 month's into our relationship and towards the end of the relationship he cheated on me. But I was woman enough to tell him. Because he had broken my heart and I needed to feel a different connect to make myself feel better for me but I called him up one day crying over the phone and told him what i had done with my friend justin. But towards the end as we broke up we faught so much because I was mad that he broke up with me for a ******* 15 year old. And well one day out of the blue I started dating this guy Chris and my ex would always ask my friends about him. But anyways he would always get jealous. And it's been about 7 month's down the road since we've broken up but my parents hate him and he hates me and well he sneaks into my window at night to come see me. We still make love and he still tells me he cares about me alot and I asked him why he said because it's just a feeling. And then I said maybe we shouldn't talk anymore and I live in georgia now but I threaten every time to move up to washington with my sister and I asked him if I where to leave tomorrow why would it matter to him and he said he would be ****** because he wasn't able to see me before I left and I wouldn't have told him. But every time I keep bringing up about us going back out he never says anything about it. He'll never give me a straight answer a yes or no.He always ignores it. And my friends are all like you two just have to put your past behind ya'll why don't ya'll just get back together. I know alot of it is on him but I am also scared of bringing it up to him. Sometimes I just dont want to know the answer but then again I do because I want to be able to just leave it all behind.

[redcrx]

do you think maybe he doesnt want to get back together but is happy with the fact that he can just sneak in your window for sex every day? If youre prepared to sleep (call it making love if you wish) with him with no actual relationship then you need to accept that he may just be using you!

[wigglebum]

The feeling he's getting is a rush of blood to the brain between his legs. This is not love just lust!!
Just tell him to clear off and get on with your life because you seem to want to "just leave it all behind"!!

[CushtyFred]

This thread reminds me of Vicky Pollard. Sounds like she wrote it. 'And then I said maybe we shouldn't talk anymore and I live in georgia now but I threaten every time to move up to washington with my sister'.......... and i said, then she said, then i said lmfao