Bad Boys vs. What?

[Sasha13]

Ok, so in a lot of cases (generalisation, I know) girls go for the bad boys, or the one's who play hard to get. So, technically, a guy might be able to increase his chances with a girl by 'being bad' or playing hard to get.

So what's the equivalent for guys (again, generalising I know)? What do they like? Usher said they want 'a lady in the street but a freak in the bed'. Is that right??

By the way, I don't intend to alter my personality in response to this, I'm just interested!!

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, how come i never get a decent girl then?
Anyway, in answer to you second part.
I personally, would like a girly girl. Someone who acts like a lady should, and have lady values. By that i mean, no drinking pints, shouting/swearing in public, etc. etc. (in other words, a lady who doesnt act like a man)
Basically, an old fashioned girl, who has morals,able to hold conversation, etc.
But thats just me. Thats why i am still single...

[ummmm1]

In answer to the first part. i do not like bad boys. I like a man who treats me with respect. I also like a man who is able to articulate his feelings without feeling like a poof. I also like a man who doesn't get annoyed when you ask him to explain the off side rule. He must also never complain about me going out with my male mates. I'm hardly ever single.......

[MrBen5]

Ahhh, i misunderstood the question. i was thinking in the lines of commitment.
If its just what type of girls guys for, for a quickie, then i suppose its a simple answer. Any with big breasts or any girl who is willing to offer themselves...

[ummmm1]

I think she means......

Act like a lady but a....
(w)hore in the bedroom......

[Sasha13]

No, I mean in terms of having a relationship as opposed to just sex. Don't get me wrong ummmm1, I like all that too but I've never found it in someone who doesn't bore me stupid (and I can explain the offside rule myself anyway)!!

Just interested if there was a type that men are supposed to go for when they look for relationships, in the same way that girls are supposed to go for bad boys!!

Thanks for your answers, keep them coming!!

[ummmm1]

I find it quite easily...

I think men (my friends) think they want a certain type. The go for the physical attributes but the girls end up doing their head in. They always seem to fall for the girls that have a nice personality and a very good sense of humour. There is nothing better than spending time with someone who makes you laugh. They just think they want the girly girls until they have to wait 2 hours for her to get ready

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, your right in some ways ummmm1. A guy would love to have a girl he can have fun with.
I personally dont mind waiting for hours for a girl to get ready. The thing i do mind is these really 'stuck up' girls who are very attractive, yet very boring when it comes to a relationship. As they dont like to get their hair rumpled or makeup smudged. The glamorous girls can attract a guy, no problem, but they never tend to keep him.
The only way to keep a guy, is to be fun, make a good meal and most of all, keep him sexually satisfied...

[ummmm1]

That's what I meant MrBen