what should i do?

[tinkerbell07]

i met this lad!! i really like him and i know he likes me and we both want to be together but the pronlem is he lives in derbyshire and i live in newcastle!! ive been in a long distance relationship before but it ended because neither of us could deal with the distance!! but i really like this lad and don't know whether to give it go!! what should i do? any good replies thnx!!

[starry eyes]

Theres no harm in giving it a go. My (so called!) best mate is in a long distance relationship, she goes to visit her boyf every weekend and theyv been together for nearly 7 months now. Shes moving up there for good in a few months. Only thing is tho, since meeting him, she has treated her mates so badly that she has almost lost us all, so be careful you dont do the same thing.

[tinkerbell07]

thnx starry eyes!! yea ur probably right!! thnx tho!!

[melons]

mates should be there for you, when you get a boyfriend and move on it can be hard especially when you have all done eveything together. Im not excusing them treating you really badly though.
I had a long distance relationship and married the person! Been together 6 years! Not every long distance is a disaster! Give it a go, what have you to loose!

[mangosam]

Try it u may learn from it. but have fun and enjoy it

[tinkerbell07]

thanx every1!! has really helped!! i listened 2 uz all and i am now with the lad!! thanx!! x

[Drisgirl]

My husband and I have had a long distance relationship for 10 yrs.We see each other every second weekend.Love conquers all -we are still happy -apart from the normal right thats it and I mean it this time type of arguements - lol

O I should say I knew when I met him he worked away from home so I took that on board.

They can work (thumbs up)

[Drisgirl]

oops -too late -Im hellish for skipping through posts - lol

Good Luck !!!