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I have a friend (with benefits) we are both involved with other people and I told him i couldn't see him anymore because i was falling in love with him. He kind of freaked out and now won't even talk to me. WHAT THE HELL?
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Let me clarify - it isn't that I don't want a relationship. I CAN'T. It is a bit more complicated than it looks. Before we "crossed the line" we were friends for more than 9 yrs! We always could talk about anything and now not at all. Come on, give me a break. He knows I can't leave my current situation and he does not expect me to so why the silent treatment?
you've changed the rules; so has he. Why he has done so in this particular fashion I don't know (you know him better than me... er, unless I'm married to him) but triggerhippy is right: you acted, he reacted. Broadly speaking, I'd say he doesn't want you loving him. Maybe it's because he loves you too but quite possibly nothing of the sort; maybe he just thinks that because you told him you couldn't see him anymore, you'd dumped him?.
I had a bit of communication with my friend just after i posted my last response. We both know that our relationship isn't right and have agreed we can't really even speak to each other but every once in a while. It was the reaction I needed and he too, I believe. I feel things are better now and we can both sleep more peacefully.