Rubbish man

[idly_enjoys]

I have been seeing this guy for two months. He's totally rubbish at organising to see me, I am quite a busy person so we're seeing each other about once a week and it's ******* me off. If he really liked me, wouldn't he make the effort to arrange to see me more?

[Goodsoulette]

I was really hoping this was gonna be a tale of love from a far on a Wednesday morning as you ogled the bloke who picked up your wheelie bin.
I would say maybe he is busy and he hasnt time to see you more often, its only been 2 months.
Have you asked to see him more? If you really are after more than he can offer you, tell him and if he still doesnt respond then you will have to leave it at that.

[xhxmxsx]

yep, when i met my fiance he was in a group of friends who drank at the bar i worked in, we became friends and he was always with his friends, when we started dating he would make special time for me and he had a busy schedule e,g, working shifts having 2 children from a previous relationship.
tell him how u feel he may not notice then he may change if not find someone who will make time for you

[4getmenot]

you just said you are very busy so how can he make the effort to see you more, think that should be you

[idly_enjoys]

I really wanted to see him on Sunday, I invited him over but he said he'd 'give it a miss' this time.

I think I've answered my own question. Grrrrrr

[4getmenot]

well it is up to him, if you're the kind of person where its on your terms all the time then maybe you cant be together. It should be give and take. As you say you are busy alot maybe he wants to see you more, so he is giving you a taste of your own medicine.

[Reverandfunk]

Personally speaking, whenever Ive met someone really like you see as much of each other as possible. Giving it a miss this time suggests its fairly casual, to be honest I dont think I could be ar5ed seeing someone once a week.

[Skreecheeboy]

I'd have asked why he wanted to give it a miss. Might have had a valid excuse. If you're busy, you're busy. Simple as.

[EngTeach]

Not to be rude, but you must read, "He's Just Not that Into You", by Greg Berhardt. I wish that book had been around when I was 16. My life may be very different.

You did answer your own question. I f he was that interested he'd see you. "I'll take a pass". What is that about? He did not even make up an excuse.

I no longer waste time on men (or anyone) who is not respectful of my time or me. I have dropped "friends" who have cancelled one too many times, are excessively late, etc, Life is too short to waste on people who are selfish.