Women initiating...

[orange sky]

Right, to all you heterosexual males out there...a female asking a guy out..turn on or not, good impression or what?

[China Doll]

Bl00dy terrifying and completely not the done thing.

Sorry.

Knee jerk (word of the week for me I think) reaction.

[Llamatron]

Sounds great.
But then I'm pathetically shy so it would make things easier for me.

[Romeo]

I wouldn't have any problems with that.

[Richkent]

Sounds ideal, wheres the rule book to say the guy has to ask the girl? If a girl was to ask me out, straight away I would take it as a huge complement because shes noticed me! If you like really like a fella but you dont ask him out because its "not the done thing" you could miss out big time, maybe he really like you but is just a shy. And your only going to be asking yourself "what If?"

[Richie1976]

Massive turn on.

[user-4013600]

most guys usully aks me out so ive neve needed to do it
im shy but if your not, its okay .

[China Doll]

No. Absolutely not.

I personally honestly believe that if a bloke is interested then he should be given some encouragement but ultimately do the asking.

Being chivalrous or gentlemanly seems to have gone out of fashion and it's high time it came back!

(I've had time to think of reasons why men should ask rather than blame the fact I'm a wuss ;0) )

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i would love a girl to ask me out : )

[Reverandfunk]

Blo*dy hell it's called equality lol.

[China Doll]

I'm not changing my stance on this.

< Digs heels in >

;0)

[Richkent]

Only leave it all to the guy to do if you were born in the 40's! Theres no reason at all way it should be left for the guy to do. I think if a girl will insist that she has to be asked out then then she's a bit shallow and craves the attention or very old fashioned......probably best avoided in either case!

[Salas]

Sounds great to me, I would be looking forward to you asking for other things as well.

Do It,

[joko]

sounds like it very much is the done thing, china, your ''rule'' went out with the ark it seems

[China Doll]

Appears so.

Less of a rule and more of an excuse for my wussiness I think.

I'll head back off to my cave now! ;0)

[johnlambert]

We live in an age of equality of just about everything so, as a hetrosexual male, I did not have a problem with a female asking me out, in fact on the few occasions when it happened, I was very flattered