If you wish to contact a specific ABer, I'd suggest making a new email account (definitely don't use an existing one you use) and posting the address on a thread and asking that user to email it.
Wow, I wish I had seen this post one minute ago. I have just asked the same questions. Would like to email one or two people on here, but do not fancy putting my email address up for all and sundry to read. Really showing my ignorance here, is there actually a dating section here, or do you all just share your relationship problems here. I should be so lucky as I don't have a relationship at the moment. I am open to negotiation here though.