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Your Bloke looking at other women !!!
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I cant bare it when my bloke looks at other women, sometimes i say somet sometimes i dont ! How do you feel about it, does it mean anything....Blokes point of view would be nice too !
I cant bare it when my bloke looks at other women, sometimes i say somet sometimes i dont ! How do you feel about it, does it mean anything....Blokes point of view would be nice too !
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It doesn't bother me in the slightest.
Ok, if he were the sort of bloke who frothed at the mouth whilst looking at other women it would be different. But then I wouldn't even be with him!
it is perfectly natural to admire beauty in others. Heck, I even manage to point them out to Mr P before he notices..I know his type so well ;o)
Ok, if he were the sort of bloke who frothed at the mouth whilst looking at other women it would be different. But then I wouldn't even be with him!
it is perfectly natural to admire beauty in others. Heck, I even manage to point them out to Mr P before he notices..I know his type so well ;o)
OK - first things first -
Men are genetically programmed to gauge the suitability of prospective females. They look at their breasts - suitable for feeding, and their hips - suitable for child-bearing - that is all hard-wired in but ...
We are not cavemen any more, and a degree of simple mental over-riding is required to be polite. I do look at women, but I would never be so obvious that my wife would see it. If I am out with her and a pretty girl walks past, I would not dream of following her with my eyes in the way I would if I was alone.
Your boyfriend can't realise that this upsets you, and in view of your depth of feeling, I would certainly tell him and I would expect him to curb his instincts from that day on.
I would say that it is entirely an instinctive thing - I gawp at gorgeous young women all the time, although I know that they certainly would have no interest what ever in someone like me.
Looking is just that - looking - it doesn't imply that action or even anything more than simply admiring is going to follow as a result.
That said, if it upsets you, it is disrespectful to you, and he should be advised, and stop now.
Hope this helps.
Men are genetically programmed to gauge the suitability of prospective females. They look at their breasts - suitable for feeding, and their hips - suitable for child-bearing - that is all hard-wired in but ...
We are not cavemen any more, and a degree of simple mental over-riding is required to be polite. I do look at women, but I would never be so obvious that my wife would see it. If I am out with her and a pretty girl walks past, I would not dream of following her with my eyes in the way I would if I was alone.
Your boyfriend can't realise that this upsets you, and in view of your depth of feeling, I would certainly tell him and I would expect him to curb his instincts from that day on.
I would say that it is entirely an instinctive thing - I gawp at gorgeous young women all the time, although I know that they certainly would have no interest what ever in someone like me.
Looking is just that - looking - it doesn't imply that action or even anything more than simply admiring is going to follow as a result.
That said, if it upsets you, it is disrespectful to you, and he should be advised, and stop now.
Hope this helps.
