still single.....

[Banana Boat]

Im pretty sure i may have asked this before, but i want more advise! why am i still single? i mean,. I'm 24, Female, im a nice person, trustwothy (a bit too trustworthy), loyal, id do anything for my friends or family, im not exactly ugly, and although i could do with losing weight, i like to think that there is more to me than being big. I have a good job, a car, a nice house, Yet, men just arn't interested, some even have had the nerve to call me arrogant or rude, which is the 2 things that i AM NOT! I just don't understand what im doing so wrong. any ideas? All advise apprecaited.

[redcrx]

you need to find out why they may consider you to be arrogant or rude. Ask your friends for some honest answers, are you really like that, could people misunderstand you and get wrong idea or is it a front you put on when shy that you think its outgoing but instead is rude?

[Banana Boat]

haha, so your basicly saying its cos im fat!!! Im 5ft 2. Rather not say my weight, but i will admit i need to lose a few stone! But im wouldnt say im hideously massive. I dress to my size, I dont wear skimpy clothes with my belly hanging out ect ect....!

[Goodsoulette]

Unless you have an overhanging belly and cankles it wont be your weight unless you are aiming way out of your league. There's someone out there for everyone, even the rude, arrogant folk amongst us.

Stop trying to get a bloke and one will come along.

[warpig3]

Morning banana boat, from what I can see there is nothing in your post to suggest that you are either arrogant or rude. Sometimes people misinterpret others, as redcrx says, ask someone you trust, do you come across the wrong way from that which you intended?

[tiggerblue10]

You are only 24 Banana Boat. You have plenty of time and as Goodsoulette says it will come along when you least expect.

[bigmamma]

Oh my , you are worried about being single at 24 ? You are still a youngster and have time yet to bump into mr right .
Now , erm....if you get to my age and still on the shelf ,,,,well what can I say ! :-) x

[Ice.Maiden]

Doesn't sound as though there's much wrong with you at all banana boat - but maybe you're just not in the right place to meet the man you deserve x.

[warpig3]

No Dizdabiz I wasn't suggesting that at all, I was trying to point out that what a person may say or may intend to project may come across differently to another leading to comments of rudeness or arrogance. This is why I suggested that BB spoke to someone she trusted.

[Lueclue]

I dont think weight and height is a big factor. Thats quite a shallow thing when people only think about the appearance. Personality can count for a lot.

Im a plus size lady and have never had a problem finding a boyfriend (not gloating!) I have been with the same man for 8 1/2 years and he thinks I am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen.
If you have confidence, that is attractive too. If you walk into a room with your head down and keep yourself to yourself, you may seem unapproachable and arrogant - although unintended.
The right person will come to you. Looking doesnt always turn out for the best. I met my now fiance when I wasnt even looking for someone.
You will find that someone. Just be patient.

[Banana Boat]

Jesus christ DIZDABIZ, are you having a laugh!!!!? How is banana boat me being racist!!! Im sorry you think that but just because society is so stupid these days that we cant say/write or even do anything with out it being classed as a rasist act, it doesnt mean that you have to join into it and make any random word into a rasist comment.
As for every body else's comments, thank you very much, keep 'em coming! lol x
ps i am on bookface but am a bit wary about giving my details out! x

[leg_end758]

aw mamma knoibby will give you bitty you knows that lol

[Banana Boat]

Apology accepted! x