still single.....

[Banana Boat]

Im pretty sure i may have asked this before, but i want more advise! why am i still single? i mean,. I'm 24, Female, im a nice person, trustwothy (a bit too trustworthy), loyal, id do anything for my friends or family, im not exactly ugly, and although i could do with losing weight, i like to think that there is more to me than being big. I have a good job, a car, a nice house, Yet, men just arn't interested, some even have had the nerve to call me arrogant or rude, which is the 2 things that i AM NOT! I just don't understand what im doing so wrong. any ideas? All advise apprecaited.

[Banana Boat]

If you give me your link or full name ect for bookface, then i will add you so you can see me, that way i dont have to put my details on here!

[warpig3]

No worries DIZ, but there you go, it is easy to misinterpret people.

[Skreecheeboy]

What's facebook/bookface? A banana boat is a yellow inflatable dhingy which is shaped like a large phallus. Tourists pay money to go on them and be towed by a speed boat until they fall off. There's nothing racist about naming yourself after a large yellow inflatable dhingy.

[Banana Boat]

Oh dear! This is getting pathetic now. If you read Skreecheeboy's answer you will find out what a banana boat actually is. Would you please explain to me in exact details then, why banana boat, is a racist term? cos im obviously completely unaware that is suppposedly is! And as for the anger management thing, yeah right, ok then! jesus!
gravitate, i will email ya in a jiffy! lol x

[dolly pond]

banana boat, get down the gym, get some self esteem and stop looking! once u feel good in yourself, then mr perfect will drop in your lap. i`m 5ft 2, lost 3st so far, three more to go to get to 8st which is wot my doc said. i feel like a new woman, and can wear really nice flattering clothes (at last) as being 14st for me was denting my self esteem.

go girl

x

[Banana Boat]

Ah, thank you so much!!!!! Feels odd now tho that you know who i am after reading my posts and seeing what i say that i wouldnt have the guts to say to people to actually know lol!, hence the reason i come in here!
x

[Banana Boat]

Im sorry you feel that way newsdesk, but i have to say, you have given me no logical explanation (as asked) as to why it is racist, and obviously, as you can think of nothing, you are turning it around to be sexual, when actually, only people with an obviously dirty mind like yourself, would think that. Also, i dont think my name, actually has anything to do with it!!!!
but hey, each to their own.

[Lueclue]

this has turned into a silly argument for no reason.
When people pick a name they can hardly sit there and go through every possible name to avoid someone misinterpreting it.


'Banana boat' is not racist. Its simply what it is - a banana shaped inflatable boat used on tourist resorts.

[CheekyChops]

Just to clear up why certain people may find it racist, found on another website:

"...there is an old racist slur of saying someone had just come over on a banana boat (a boat that transfers banana's rather than a boat shaped like a banana) normally being applied to someone black from the Caribbean. Anyone familiar with the racist use of banana boat may think that's what you mean"

[Banana Boat]

Thank you. Finally, someone who is willing to explain before ranting and raving at me! Well, it wasnt meant in that way atall. and tbh i shouldnt have to explain myself to people, if i say it's not meant in a racist way, then i mean it. Im sure if i had a good look at everyones names on here, im sure i could find some kind of hidden meaning in them all.
end of.
Thank you cheekychops. much appreciated. xx

[Skreecheeboy]

BB, it's been ages since I've ridden a banana boat!

[REDHEAD24]

join some clubs , it seems a little strange that men would say that u are arrogant though

mabye your shy and it comes across as something else

dont worry too much men are hassle , join a salsa club

[blu3wave]

Lose some weight, get a six pack.... you'll have a horde of girls from the gym tearing up your shirt and chasing you down the street all the way to your house.
Try it and let us know how you get on :)