am i just suffering from pmt?? lol

[teri-lee-ann]

So.. My brother stopped talking to me this year because of my relationship choices, I thought my whole family were really close but I'm questioning it now. My Ma went on holiday today and i said id meet her to say goodbye and that, and she went without phoning or saying goodbye. coincidently my brother took her there, but i think im just being paranoid with that. I phoned her after 20 minutes and she said she was already on the coach. Me and my Mum are really close and i dont understand it? am i just suffering pmt? my partner seems to think so... :( x

[beck07]

Most blokes answers to something to they dont understand is ''you must have pmt darling''! dont let him make you think like this if you dont agree! I am very close to my mum and it would have upset me to been in that situation too. Ask her why she left without saying goodbye and tell her its affected to because of how close you thought you were! As for your brother, he should respect your choices and be there for you even if he doesnt agree with your choices!

[legend758duo]

youre really close?
but she didnt say goodbye goping away over xmas?
i dont think its pmt.
i do think that you may not be as close as you think you are.
i may be wrong tho.

[Petal~flower]

PMT can make you feel a totally different person. (sorry men, you will never understand this one)

I often read things in situations that never existed, when I had PMT.

Let it go for now, and talk to your mum when she gets back from her holiday

[unrulyjulie]

hi terri, i was disillusioned about the closeness of me and my brother about 3 1/2 years ago now! sad situation but when you have no control to change it, you just have to move on.
I think your mum doing that was odd but maybe she was under pressure from your brother, maybe she felt she had said bye before the date of her actually going. maybe she just ran out of time, who knows.? All you can do is ask her on her return. Im sure there will be a simple explanation for it. :-)
pmt is a "get out of all" excuse and its unfair of your partner to suggest that something important to you is caused by this! Mans way when he doesnt understand womans emotions! :-)
I think you have good reason to question her actions.! and yes, it is easy to get slightly paranoid when you've been treated badly by someone you care greatly for. I know! Not sure this is the case here though. I wouldnt like it !!! I also think this time of the year makes us more sensitive to stuff like this.
all the best, you have a lovely christmas.