I have done a terrible terrible thing

[Skreecheeboy]

I have just split up with my girlfriend by email and I am feeling pretty bad about it. What is the worst way you have ever dumped somebody?

[Skreecheeboy]

I just remembered when I was speaking to my mate on msn that I once got my mate to dump my bird for me at school. "Just tell her I'm not wanting to see her anymore" I said to him! I think that's a bit worse than the email. At least I expressed my reasons and stuff but it will be a shock and I should totally phone her first thing. I just hope I catch her before she gets to work. Self respect is terribly overrated.

[Ice.Maiden]

Oh dear - so you've done this sort of thing before? You're in danger of becoming a serial dumper! x

[Sugar&spice]

Yer phone her, you'll feel much better with yourself and hopefully she won't hate you half as much!

You seem a genuine guy, so learn from this!

Good Luck! xx

[darlingnc]

i wonder if *princess* has ever been dumped by email...
how'd it go skreecheeboy, did you ring her? hope it went ok. x

[4GS]

Poo'ed in her handbag

[Skreecheeboy]

I didn't manage to phone her in time. She sent me a text saying she respects my decision but she wants to know why. Will have to give her a phone later. Fairly painless though, I highly recommend doing it in future.

runs for cover

[x_Leila_x]

oh my god lol you got out of that one - how long had you been with her by the way??

[Skreecheeboy]

Hi Leila, I'd been seeing her for almost 2 months but we've been friends for about 3 years.

[tiggerblue10]

Have you spoken with her yet?

I was seeing a guy a few years ago. We'd only been seeing each other about 4 weeks and he decied not to call me at all. I rang him one evening and he told me he was busy and would call me back. The phone call never came!!! Now that is what I call a cowardly thing to do. At least you communicated with her even if it was in an email!

[leelapops]

Ah Skreech, I echo the others (except maybe princess and crambo!). Did you speak to her? x

[Poison-Ivy]

After reading thro this thread, personally Skreecheeboy I thought you were spineless. Now I see you were best friends prior for 3 years! Now your more than just spineless... your a spineless a*se hole! remember what goes around......

[TheEpsilon]

Got rid of one gf like this ,
We were due to move into a council house in Peterlee . Removal van came , so did my brother with his van .( to get my good stuff )
She went to Peterlee , I went to Northumberland ( about 70 miles apart )
Wonder if she's still waiting for me ?
Have not looked back since , but I missed my alsatian for years .

[Skreecheeboy]

I'm afraid i've not had the chance to yet and won't do till the weekend I'm afraid. I'm totally snowed under having been at work all day and recently gotten home from a course I just started tonight. Tomorrow I've got work then footy then I'm going to a DnB night aswell as wish my mate a happy 25th and I'm going to try and get my first assignment out of the way by close of play on Monday as I might be able to do it on I something I can put to good use, provided it's done by Tuesday. I'm pretty sure she's going to understand when I speak to her though, I hope.

[LOZZER1]

I got dumped once whilst lying in a hospital bed recovering from a accident...now that is low

[Petal~flower]

Well I was dumped via email from someone I was with for nearly 4 years. And it dented my self esteem big time. Still recovering!

[Skreecheeboy]

Thanks Epsilon, "no greater gift can one man give but to lay down his life for his brother" John 15, v13.

go gently on him please girls!!

[jno]

understandably, Petal, but you can console yourself with the realisation that you're a lot better off without someone like that. Skreecheeboy, do you want to be seen like this?

[leelapops]

Skreechee, quit making excuses! If that isn't what you're doing, I am sorry hun but it seems like you are!

She should be your priority. You have just hurt another human-and a friend, to boot. Make it right! You might never get another chance. The longer you wait, the worse it'll be.

[Poison-Ivy]

Yes Skreecheeboy can see how bad your feeling...

Note to all females.. bedtime Prayer "hope Skreecheeboys kn*b turns blue and falls off"......... amen

[Petal~flower]

jno, yes I do. But the humiliation and hurt is still with me. And this email was sent to me last May.

Makes it harder to move on, as you doubt yourself all the time... Well I do.