How can i get a girlfriend?

[relfy]

I am really really ugly and no girls like me at all! And I really want a girlfriend to stop my friends calling me gay. What can I do to get a girlfriend, bearing in mind I am really ugly?

[mistys]

You may be really ugly, but what i meant was until you learn to accept that look's aren't everything and you have other good qualities then it's not likely a girl will notice them either.

[relfy]

TheEpsilon - no, why?

Panic Button - i know it may sound easy to you, but i don't have the confidence in myself! i am too scared that if i ask a girl out they will say no cause i'm ugly!

skyep - mostly online, sometimes in everyday life but most times online

[relfy]

i know i have other qualities, like i am nice to everyone, but girls don't realise that. they just don't like me for sure!

[relfy]

that was to mistys

[skyep]

relfy - Your friends obviously see qualities in you! Not everyone is blessed with good looks! As someone else said, not everyone has good looks high on their list when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend. No one can base a relationship on looks alone, lot's of other things come in to a relationship to sustain it long term. What are the good qualities about you? List them and focus on them xxx

[mistys]

Not really sure what to say Relfy, sorry.
15 year old girl's are shallow, hopefully as you get older you will meet nicer people that like you as you are xxx

[TheEpsilon]

There are lots of ugly birds out there , just dont aim too high at first . Get one to practice on , then upgrade .

[skyep]

When you have a conversation with a girl, don't automatically think 'possible date' May be you are sending out the wrong signals! Be relaxed, don't be too full on, make friends, things happen over time xxx

[gonzo00]

join facebook mate...it's like shooting fish in a barrel! you will be amazed just how many sad and lonley ladies there are out there. women dont go for looks ,they want someone to make them feel loved and wanted...it also helps if you've got a massive c**k!

[sir.prize]

gonzo00 . . .this is an intelligent conversation with a minor.

Do you really have to show your obvious low-life in an expressive manner where it is not wanted and probably observed by other minors.

Did you study stupidity - or were you born like it?

[skyep]

Oh and relfy - Basics, wash regularly, deodorant, if you smell nice that's a plus! Whatever you wear make sure it's clean on, that goes for footwear too, good luck xxx

[mistys]

That is true, most girl's just want to be wanted. Give them lots of attention and they will most likely fall for you!

Wont agree with the c*ck comment as your only 15!!

[gonzo00]

well sir i don't study stupidity...but you obviously don't study your english grammer ,you c**k!

[sir.prize]

grammer?

Well . . . !!!

[sir.prize]

Goons like gonzo never seem to amaze me.

They cannot allow a perfectly innocent post/thread to progress without introducing obscenities.

Did someone mention low life?

[gonzo00]

i must apologise as i did not know that the young man was a fifteen year old.....what worries me more is that "sir" is taking an unusually keen interest in fifteen year old boys in the first place! sadly the internet seems to attract people like that.
ps. don't you think that a fifteen year old has heard that word before?......then again it's probably been so long since you were in school (as opposed to hanging around outside them) that you wouldn't remember anyway!

[skyep]

Come on, behave!

[sir.prize]

gonzo . . . . Should I thank you for your response?

Perhaps not.

If you have the patience to search Answerbank you will find that relfy is a frequent contributor to Chatterbank - and very welcome.

If you read the above threads there are many Abers who have this young man's interests at heart, and offer sound advice.

And may I add, with no ulterior motives.

Your inference including the word 'interest' is not worthy of response; other than to say it is unwelcome, misguided and certainly not appropriate here.

If that is the way your mind works, then be away with you.

PS: Sorry relfy for 'kidnapping' your post, but some people are beyond belief.

Take the advice of the nicer people on here and ignore the gonzo goons of this world.

[gonzo00]

he started it! i was only being light hearted and didn't even spell the c word. suddenly im being attacked by the obviously self important "sir prize". it amazes me how so far up thier own back ends some people can be!

[gonzo00]

ps. "goons"....have we gone back in time to the forties or something?