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[delsgirl]

Last Friday my partner came home in a really bad mood. He went for a nap and came back downstairs a couple of hours later. I was really nice and said do you feel better and he exploded again. He ranted and raved all evening, I always call Friday nights our night as its the night my kids go to their fathers for the night. Anyway he was absolutely awful and said how much he really really hated me and he does not fancy me ( im always complaining that we never have sex as he has his own bedroom due to a bad back, which has been great recently (his back). I get the impression he was upset before he got home. I have not spoken to him since, and he pretended on 2 occasions that nothing had happened, the cheeky swine and even asked if i wanted to go for our usual drink, I refused of course as i wouldnt want to be with someone who hated me. Is he just a weird Aquarian ? Or just picking a fight on fridays to go out with his mates

[weeal]

cheeky basket telling you all that then expecting you to act like theres nothing wrong

pointless trying to guess, as he's a MAN, and even they dont know why they are weird lol

[Quoi]

Its the start of his backing out campaign

[Myriad2112]

If you ask me it's usually the women that have the unexplained moodswings, sulks,tempers, PMT etc
even if us poor blokes haven't even as much as spoken. :)

[delsgirl]

I dont know about backing out as he's done this quite a few times over the last 5 years, and then when I react like ignoring him and carry on with my usual duties etc (im not a cryer, I just think he makes himself look daft) he feels all sorry for himself. He says things like "dont worry about me I will get my own dinner" etc

[cazzz1975]

I have to say I agree with quoi....

Having a separate room doesnt help

[weeal]

Hmmm not much of a happy life by the sounds of it, if he's a moody guy

lol @ Myriad2112

[Quoi]

delsgirl - I know these things and its exactly what I am doing - I really dont want to make the choice of staying or leaving so I have these irrational outbursts & sulks that go for days triggered by nothing except the mental dilamma of HOW or even IF to move on.

[delsgirl]

If it is backing out he's taking a very long time to get round to it. The seperate rooms were the Doctors idea, and i was not a happy bunny and still feel resentful, he's 55 and its so easy for him to say he;s too tired for me all the time. Im 10 years younger and full of life.

[Myriad2112]

What's your phone nunmber :)

[Ice.Maiden]

Oh dear, delsgirl! I don't think your partner's birthsign has an iota to do with it. He just sounds awful. Sorry - but to speak to you so disrespectfully, not to want to sleep with you AND telling you that he hates you - what are you still doing with a man like that?
The least you need to do is sit down and talk to him when he's in a decent mood, and spell it out to him that if his manner continues, your relationship'll come to an end - and mean it! I hope your children don't hear any of this either. You surely deserve better.

[delsgirl]

I think Aquarian men are very weird anyway, he's the second one ive had a relationship with

[cazzz1975]

I agree with Ice, Its hard to live with someone that tells you he hates you and doesnt fancy you.

He maybe under pressure or feeling stressed out which is why he is hitting out so much.

[cazzz1975]

my other half is aquarian and I wouldnt swap him for the world

[Ice.Maiden]

True, Cazzz, but honestly, my husband'd never speak to me like that, or treat me so horribly. He wouldn't treat ANY woman like it, and yet he works really hard, has travelling to do, and sometimes comes in looking whacked. There's no excuse for rudeness and such cutting comments. Surely a silence'd sufice?

[weeal]

I agree Icey, and if he does this often and is making you miserable tell him he has to stop it or sort it once and for all, its downright rude apart from anything else

[Ice.Maiden]

the boyfriend before my husband was an Aquarian as well Cazzz, and he was lovely.

[cazzz1975]

In fact I know a lot of aquarians and I am one myself and generally we are happy peeps if not a bit off the wall ;D

[weeal]

my dad was aquarius and he was nasty but dont think this situation is about star signs
reminds me, i have a really funny book called "How to Spot a B*stard by his Star sign", its hilarious

[cazzz1975]

lol weeal!

[delsgirl]

I agree he is very rude and doesnot have the best manners in the world. It s all very well we all have the in my case rare outburst, but at least everyone knows why. It s the fact that i dont know why thats really bugging me, did something happen at work or money probs etc etc