m e n !

[delsgirl]

Last Friday my partner came home in a really bad mood. He went for a nap and came back downstairs a couple of hours later. I was really nice and said do you feel better and he exploded again. He ranted and raved all evening, I always call Friday nights our night as its the night my kids go to their fathers for the night. Anyway he was absolutely awful and said how much he really really hated me and he does not fancy me ( im always complaining that we never have sex as he has his own bedroom due to a bad back, which has been great recently (his back). I get the impression he was upset before he got home. I have not spoken to him since, and he pretended on 2 occasions that nothing had happened, the cheeky swine and even asked if i wanted to go for our usual drink, I refused of course as i wouldnt want to be with someone who hated me. Is he just a weird Aquarian ? Or just picking a fight on fridays to go out with his mates

[Beads]

The only comment I have right now delsgirl - is that - right now - I am so sick of men. Full stop.

[cazzz1975]

do you talk much to each other delsgirl? I like to confide all my problems in people because its good therapy and it helps me through.

It brings you closer together

[Myriad2112]

Waht about a cancerian?

[weeal]

hey Beads whassup? you having trouble with the 'other' species too?

[Beads]

ps hi weeal hun

[weeal]

hiya beads u ok pet?

[Ice.Maiden]

Cazzz beat me to it. Communication's vital delsgirl, but it doesn't seem as though you're doing much of that at the moment, or you'd probably know the answer to your questions. Good luck with things, anway.

[figure]

There are so-called men and then there are gentlemen. A gently man would not treat a lady like your guy, Delsgirl. As Ice said, you need to have a serious talk with him.
All the best. x

[Beads]

I'm ok thanks weeal, how are you?xx

[weeal]

Myriad2112

according to my aforementioned book here: Where to find a cancerian man -
In a bookstore asking for directions to the self-help section; in Oxfam shopping for your birthday pressie; out drinking with the lads just to prove hes one of them (tho after one drink to many he ish moaning about how hard it ish to find a woman to live up to hish mothersh expectashuns)

[delsgirl]

Thanks for the Cancerian words of wisdom, Myriad was almost sounding nice, asking for my phone number

[weeal]

lol you have to get this book its a right laugh

at least we can laugh at them at times eh, they are mere males

[delsgirl]

By the way he's come home tonight had a bath and got ready and gone out, said he was eating out and that was that. Gone to talk to someone i suppose feeling more sorry for himself,

[Quoi]

you wouldn't listen would you?

[weeal]

ooh delsgirl - that is not good

[cazzz1975]

hmmm, Im thinking he isnt feeling sorry for himself, his little spats with you give him the perfect excuse to go and do what he really wants.

Im thinking the rows are engineered...

[delsgirl]

Yes i also thought about the engineering side of things earlier, as it seems to be a friday that it happens, but he does enjoy a good running down with his grown up daughters about me and they have complained about not seeing him lately, so my guess is he's gone to have a im lonely talk with them and go out to eat

[legend004]

Theres something afoot.
Dont wanna be the FIRST one to say it .
But something would appear to be going on.



D T H ?

[Quoi]

Come on Delsgirl - wouldnt you normally expect to be invited or at least get prior info about what his plans were - why is he excluding you?

[cazzz1975]

I think this relationship is all but over :(

I dont know how you managed to keep it stringing along for this long, he doesnt sound like he respects or loves you, I think its time to wake up and smell the java.

this is not a man thing, this is just him, who himself sounds miserable and unhappy as well as you..