I need advice!!!

[katwoman81]

I need to track my partners mobile phone because I suspect he is being unfaithful. However, he always has his phone about his person and hides it at night so I cant set it up to agree to "tracking". Is there any other way I can do this without him knowing (that doesn't cost an arm and a leg)?

[katwoman81]

To InaPickle, I know you mean well, but it's easy enough to be philosophical when you are not the one in the situation. If I'm wrong, then at least if I can find out for sure so I then know whether I need counselling or not. Otherwise I shall end up driving myself mad.

[redcrx]

In a pickle is right.

and If youve lost all trust in your partner, which is obvious if youre thinking of tracking a mobile, then theres very little hope for your relationship.

sit down with him and ASK him!

[whiskeysheri]

If he actually hides it, I would say go with your instinct.

[katwoman81]

Thanks redheadisback, that is really helpful, although unfortunately it does seem like I would have to get hold of hisd phone in order to set it up and he is very secretive with it, so I don't know how to get around that one. But thanks anyway x

[katwoman81]

I wouldn't say he actually HIDES it, but I know he does have a PIN code set up on it and as far as I know he hasn't even written it down!

[boro1986]

The words bunny and boiler come to mind!!!

[jno]

just keeping his phone on him isn't enough reason to suspect him. Do you have other reasons?

[Ice.Maiden]

Totally agree with IaP, Kat.
Unless you're full of insecurities, then I'd say follow your gut instincts. Has your partner ever given you reason to doubt him before? Have you discussed your worries with him?
If he's cheating, I wouldn't say it's automatic that you ditch him, but it shows that there's something wrong with the relationship which needs sorting out quickly, if it's to survive.
If the guy's NOT cheating, then you have to ask yourself why you're so suspicious, and if you're over-reacting.
Oh - and if you're almost 100% sure he is - do as red says, and follow him!! Best of!

[lil123]

I have been in this situation with my now ex husband. He started off being secrective with his phone then he started not coming home from nite out with the 'lads' then I phoned phone numbers in his pocket so I got another phone and text this woman pretending to be him and that i had a new number and I found out loads BUT I still put up with his lies for months after that
He had done it to me all the way through our marriage and when he was very abusive to me too
Looking back I cant belive I put up with what I did off him but thats easy when you are out of the situation when you are in it , thats different
I think you have a valid reason to be suspicious and maybe if you feel you can confront him BUT my ex was a expert lier I couldn't even tell by his face which was the worst thing
Just do what you need to x

[boro1986]

Why did Bunny Boiler come to mind well no offence Kat but asking how to track your BF phone is a bit extreme is it not. Have it out with him