Think sherii needs us girls!!

[puddicat]

If you girls around can you take time out and say hello think she would appreciate support thanks!!!!i

[sara3]

shame we can't all go over with a bottle (or 2) of wine..

[puddicat]

sara maybe it would help dont know where she lives sadly!!,thanks for saying hello to her!!!

[sara3]

I really feel for her. splitting up when you have solid evidence is one thing, but the not knowing for sure must be hell for her.

[puddicat]

sara it wasnt stockings for me that split me and my ex, if i was sherri i would gone bananas cos she needs answers, which i got!!!

[lajohn]

how you make your bed so you lie.

[sara3]

how very profound.

puddi, I think there lies the problem and perhaps she will never know.

there were so many little things my ex did that made me suspicious, and my head was spinning. in the end I pushed him away with my suspicions.. but he was def up to something, so good riddance. I'd still like to know the truth though!

[puddicat]

lajohn go away!!!

[sheribeee]

Thanku!!! Im crying my heart out now!!!!!!!!!!!! i just wanna call him and tell him to come home, i cant stand the pain anymore!!

[harryshaw]

listen to this cheri cheri lady

dont if your to upset but the words to this sums it up for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v2Y7c1_gK8Os

be strong girl

[sara3]

oh Sheri!!

my ex-husband was once very very ill. (he was almost my ex at that stage). he was in hospital and I went in everyday and I drove home exhausted and crying, "don't let him die, don't let him die". all I could think was that he was way too young, the kids were tiny, I loved him dearly, etc etc.

well, he eventually made a reasonable recovery, but in time all the bad stuff came back... reminding me of why we were supposed to have been splitting up in the first place.

all I'm saying is, you're in that shock stage where you constantly think of just the good stuff. try to keep a clear head. of course you miss him, but that doesn't mean it was all good.. and you've said as much yourself.

give yourselves some room to breath, and then see how you both feel x

[jake-the-peg]

Relate charge �45 for an hour on the phone with a councillor which covers their costs.

http://www.relate.org.uk/wantadvice/counsellin gbyphone/

Sounds pretty cheap when you're making decisions this profound

[mangosam]

Keep your head up, your smile bright and heart filled with hope. I feel for you so much everything is sudden and **** happens. But 11years is a long time I hope light shines the path. Thanks to Puddicat for posting a support thread. And please just be safe xx take care xx. much love, regards and hope xx

Sam