access to my boyfriends emails

[lil75]

My boyfriend, logged on his emails at my flat, my computer has automatically saved his password, and I couldnt resist taking a sneeky peek..however I have uncovered something I am really upset about. Im worried about telling him that I have looked, so I made up a lie and said that someone left me a voicemail anonymously telling me certain things about him (all what was in the email) he denied everything that I said, despite the fact I said I knew it was true and said to him dont lie to me, im not a fool....he still denied certain things, but its there in black and white and I know he is lying to me..I dont know how to tell him I have accessed his emails and blatently invaded his privacy, but Im sure he would do the same if he could, and probably most people would...I dont know how to deal with this?

[888sally888]

Be honest and say you couldnt resist looking - he's the one who should feel bad, not you!

details please

[B00]

Why don't you forward the email to yourself, then you can tweak it a bit and then show him- say it was sent to you by whoever left the voicemail?

[squarebear]

Or say that you accidentally logged on as him thinking it was your own email you were checking.

[4getmenot]

it would come from her address though BOO. Bit of a difficult one. What did e-mail say? If its that bad surely you should just get rid anyway then voila you dont need to explain anything

[aka pixi]

ooh crafty boo lol

I have never ever looked at my husbands emails (unless hes asked me to check them for him) even though you can get straight on them on his pc. If I did and saw something I didnt like I would tell him I looked and ask for an explanation.

[B00]

Yeah true 4get, but in all fairness the boyfriend is probably going to be too busy blustering and trying to weasle out of whatever it is is done wrong to check the small print!

(anyone else curious what was in the email???)

[B00]

*waves to pix*

Ello there, didn't see ya- sorry xx

[funnygirl]

Yeah! I am curious!!

The most obvious is that he is emailing another bloke suggestively!!

[B00]

oooo, why another bloke??

[MiniN]

tell us lil...what was in his email?

I would just tell him you've seen his emails because it kept him logged in or something?

I look at my boyfriends emails, he knows it coz the lazy git asks me to email his family from him.

[lil75]

I cant say what was in it, im feeling like sh*t, im gonna phone him and confront him now!!!!!

[B00]

you do that lil, and let us know how you get on?

Not that we're nosy or anything you understand!

[lil75]

Cant get an answer, but I will very soon.....I feel sick

[aka pixi]

good luck lil

big waves to boo :D

[EmEd1984]

oo lil75 you poor thing :( i would've said it automatically logged me in too, and don't let him dare turn it on you by saying you shouldn't be looking in the first place, because clearly it's just as well you were. good luck lovely, let us know how you get on x

[B00]

Aww, bit harsh there IAP.

How many of us can honestly say that we wouldn't peek? I know I would, but that's only because im incredibly nosy, not that I don't trust Mr Boo!

If he'd nowt to hide she wouldn't be able to find it would she?

[lil75]

Ive done it, I even read the email out to him, he asked if he could talk to me about it later and I said no, im not giving you all day to think of an escuse...answer me now, he didnt say anything, so I said you dont know what to say to me do ya, he said "no", I slammed the phone down on him, and have since sent him a text to say he is a liar and a f*ckin cheat and im glad I know the truth...for sum1 who I love so deeply, the strange thing is im not even crying, I am silently brewing for god knows whats gonna come later

[obNOXious]

dunno about that Boo, if she snooped in my emails, she'd be straight out of the door, not that I've got anything dire to hide, just I can't stand people you can't trust with your privacy, it's like reading someone's diary, you just don't do it.... well not unless you guarantee not getting caught of course:)