boyfriend...gay?

[Steak]

k, i was looking at websites my boyfriend has visited, and of course there was porn. but there was GAY porn. some guy doing some other guy up the ass... is this just curiousity, or should i have a chat with him?

[pauliwauli2]

If he's with you, he's probably not gay. Maybe he's bi-curious?

[MissCommando]

Oh god that's a tough one. Are you sure it's just your bf who has access to that comp? Maybe like pauli said, he is just curious. On the other hand, maybe someone told him about the site so he wanted to look. Either way, I'd want to ask - maybe just ask him casually rather than giving him the 3rd degree. Good luck

[joggerjayne]

Yep, he's a bender.

[Steak]

awesome. thanks guys. I have thought about asking him, but didn't want to make him seem uncomfortable. I've decided to see if he looks at anything else weird. then go from there. THANKS!

[mrs.chappie]

I think you'd know if he was gay by the way he is with you on a ahem intimate level.

If he can do the bizz no probs, then no, he won't be gay.

[Drisgirl]

Hy yhang fire just cos you want to explore other avenues doestn make you gay or all those traites.He is just prob curious like me.

I used to go on Kazaa and explored everythiing bar the effing obvious -it didnt want me to be humped by a dog -i was just curious that it actually happened - i laughed BTW sorry no harm was apparently done to the dog lol

Just ignore it -I watch man on man and its h**ny as **** so I know men who think that as well.just leave it honest hun.

Least he's healthy and loves you and isnt going out for it-its normal curiosity -its them that dont admit to having a sneak I would bother about :0) XX

[Steak]

Thank you DrisGirl. You kick ass:) that actually made me feel a lot better. :) if i were where you are... i'd hug you. then buy you a puppy. :) ewwww

[Drisgirl]

No probs -nothing less than u would expect fro me -hows Hong Kong BTW ?

Humid ?

[legend_mark5]

well of course your boyfriends gay.
















youre a gay man arent you ?


fffs

[boogieboogie]

I have a belief that many a straight man fancy it with another bloke.
If a guy wants a girl as a life partner but another man for sexual enjoyment then is he gay? or does he just have a sexual fetish/preference.

[legend_mark5]

boogie you may have that theory , but so fgar youve been well off base with your online psychoanalysis.


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[boogieboogie]

legend I read it some day or two later and you were right it was copied and pasted ;-) but not from Russel Grant.
Ta for the no. also, nice gesture that was appreciated. Turned midnight and I'm turning in too.

[legend_mark5]

well you never called



is ee youre far less vocal than when you have a keyboard ??

lol


nite

[giginfoman]

you set of freaks,peedy benders,steak drisgirl

[giginfoman]

you both sound like peedy perverts that should be locked up for kids sake

[andy-hughes]

I think your man is like most men - curious.

I read james Bond novels, but i haven't the slightest desire to shoot people or wear tuxedos a lot.

I think that most men, given the opportunity to explore the more outre aspects of the interent wiill have a look,but it's not something to be concerned about.

If he grows a moustache, starts playing show tunes on the stereo and orders a Kylie poster from e-Bay ... well maybe then it's time for that chat ...

[cassa333]

I would think it depends on how often he visits sites like that. If it was just once then it could hve been curiosity, a slip of the mouse or as someone has said a look as a friend said to check it out.

If he visits sites like this often then I would be more worried. I would be keeping an eye on him from now on though.

[MORELLO]

If he were secretly gay, he would have deleted the sites, knowing you have access. The fact he didn't says he's not arsed - excuse the pun - and was just browsing. Probably...

[daniela31]

Getting back to the original question here.....why were you looking at websites that your bf had visited???

[bond]

you don't say how old you both are or how long you are together, but as daniela31 says, i would ask why are you looking at the sites he visited - do you trust him or not? trust and honesty needs to be there. even if he was looking at straight porn, i would be a little concerned. i would attempt to have a casual/loving chat with him just to clear the situation - if you don't it may play on your mind. if you really love and trust each other and want to be together, then there should not be a problem discussing this. i hope everything will be ok for you.