how do you know?

[jrobinson200]

how do you know if ur with the one? how do you know if your arguments are normal and everyone feels like s**t about their relationships whilst in an argument? How do you know if you're with the right person, is it a definite feeling? serious answers only please

[puddicat]

jr there isnt a right answer for your question,i thought i was with the one for 18 years to find out he was a cheating lying b......d!!!

[roosi]

You know they are if you try and imagine life without them.........and couldn't!

I couldn't even begin to contemplate my life without my O/H, I therefore know by this that he is "the one".

[terambulan]

By separation you will know how much someone means to you.

[catcuddler]

i know my partner is the 1 because although he makes me mad and drives me insane at times i still love him more than i can say(pass the sick bucket lol).if you cant imagine yourself with the person is 10 years then they are not the one for you.i love my partner even when he is being annoying or disagreeable and i love him for his bad and good bits.yes i do feel poo when we row but having a blazing row then making up and not feeling like you wanna leave is real love for me
the feeling for me is butterflies when i havent seen him for a while and looking at him and feeling an intense mixture of pride that he is mine protectiveness of him and the feeling that i never wanna let him go
hope this helps and isnt 2 mushy lol

[onlyme26]

hiya,
i disagree with some of those answers... me and my partner have been together for nearly 9 years, in that time we have split up for about 18 months, we have had our problems and i have wondered if he is the one loads of times in the past,

we got back together after a 18 month break and we are rock solid, we have both grown up so much and we litterally never argue anymore!! i know what winds him up and he knows what winds me up, we know each other so well there dosent seem any point arguing over daft little things!

i have never felt so secure or in love as i do when im with him, even tho i spent 18 months doubting my feelings, i feel that if we didnt have that time aprt we wouldnt be so strong now!!

if you feel you are arging alot and you're doubting things, some time apart maybe the key!

xx

[WhiteBear]

i dont think i will ever know until i find him.

some seem to use me, hurt me and treat me as a bit on the side.

i thought i found him, he used to make me smile all the time, we used to giggle, laugh and joke together. i used to pop round to his two - three times a week, because he doesnt drive. but then... one day he told me it wasnt wrking ... i agreed. and we broke up :'(

i think ive given up searching for the one, i really dont thinkhe exsist in my life. mayb there is for others, just not me. :'(