Whats he playing at!!!

[puddicat]

Just getting back with a boyfriend that i think fondly of, he has been overseas for a few weeks and got back into the uk yesterday morning, when i got a txt to say he had arrived, sent a txt later to say hope that he was ok and and later when i thought he would be back at home, no reply on both assumed he was sleeping, today latterly i txt him to get quite a haughty reply, i realise that his work was getting to him, i dont know where i stand now feel a fool for caring and told him so,he said he had 4 weeks work to catch up on, but surely a wee acknowledgement isnt much to ask for, and what does he want from me,i really care about him but was really ****** off!!!

[jno]

sounds like you think more fondly of him than he thinks of you. That's not a great basis for a relationship unless you're exceptionally long-suffering - and if you didn't mind that sort of behaviour, you wouldn't have posted here. He may well have work to do, it's true, but most people would find time for a friendly text. If he doesn't, and if you didn't like it, then you should be trying elsewhere.

And if you've been with him before, try reminding yourself why you split.

[puddicat]

i caused it jno with my emotional outbursts!!!!

[JezUK1]

I would agree with this:- sounds like you think more fondly of him than he thinks of you. That's not a great basis for a relationship unless you're exceptionally long-suffering - and if you didn't mind that sort of behaviour, you wouldn't have posted here.

I say an ex is an ex for a reasion and its never good getting back with one at all..

Jez
http://www.onelifeboard.com

[jno]

it isn't really a question of who caused it any more, but how compatible you are. Some couples get on fine with emotional outbursts, some don't. He didn't like yours. You don't like his current offhand behaviour. It doesn't honestly sound as if you're made for each other.

But there's nothing to do now but be patient. Don't harass him. You've let him know you're still interested. Now it's up to him. But remember - you've tried each other out before. If he's decided once is enough, there's really not much more you can do about it.

(But you're never a fool for caring.)

[puddicat]

He is off my agenda, he will come back and i wont be waiting lol!!!

[legendis.god]

if hes a n ex ive read many women on here post that theyre an ex for a reason.

[puddicat]

plz legend stay out of this!!

[legendis.god]

puddi no i will not.
ive quoted female users .
if you dont want ansewrs dont post.
and if your texts are as moaning as your posts on here id imagine hes away buying a new sim card .


so dont start on me .

and what happened to mr puddicat ???

[legendis.god]

readhead ill say this once

be careful what rubbish you post otherwise theres a new editor in town and he will not let you post the rubbish you have before

so be warned


your nonsense wont be tolerated



ok ?

[puddicat]

trump!!!

[legendis.god]

is this the same guy you been on and off with for last 2 1/2 yeasr puddi?

[pastafreak]

I think ALL reasonable comments should be taken on board.....especially male opinions. After all- a male's behaviour is the 'problem' here,isn't it???

[puddicat]

I am loving it!!!

[legendis.god]

read head no attacks go away

puddi is this the same guy i was talking to u about on a thread just over a year ago?

day before your birthday ?

2nd october?


and you said he was too busy to see u on ur birthday ?


btw puddi if u find red amusing thats ok


beware anything you say

thats all


so is it same guy?