Is he just flirting with me?

[4getmenot]

The other day I had a msg on FB from a bloke that I used to work with asking what I'd been up to. He asked if I missed him to which I said 'course, you were a good worker' he works in my local pub and used to quietly give me free drinks and I've just always thought he was being nice because we worked together. He said he couldn't be bothered keep going on FB so he gave me his number to txt him so I txt him and had a chat, he asked whether I'd be out soon and said he'd buy me another drink I said that it hardly comes out his pocket and he said 'well see what I'd risk for a lovely looking mate'. Anyway first thing this morning I get a msg saying 'hey good looking what you up to' so I said I may be out this weekend and he then said 'well if you want a hug or anything let me know' so is he flirting, being friendly, being too friendly I jyst don't know. I don't want to say ok lay off and sound big headed if he isn't. I was going to say 'well yer I;m coming out coz my BOYFRIEND is watching boxing' but then decided not too I've never had to tell anyone I have a boyfriend before to warn them off. What do I do? He got married last year its all a bit strange he's suddenly txting me.

[4getmenot]

well thats what I thought get the drink so what if he takes it as more I know thats his fault :-)

[NORMANTHEDOG]

he will have your nickers round your ankles by closing time,mark my words.

[4getmenot]

I don�t wear any. Lol basically norman you were wrong. I went up pub tried hardest not to be served by him but when he did serve me he put an extra shot in drink and gave me more change back. I had a good night and shock horror didn�t end up sh@gging him. Then after the pub I went with a mate round to another blokes house and guess what no sh@g there either then me and another bloke walked a friend home and then he walked me home and oh my god no sh@g there either!!! So I don�t know what trust issues you have or have had with girlfriends but a girl can speak to a bloke with sh@gging him taken or not. Or maybe you just thought it might happen because thats the game you play whenever you pick up cheap tarts. Thank You have a great day :-)