Sleep with someone on a first date?

[maplestar]

Would you sleep with someoneon a first date? and do you think men and women are judged differentlly on this matter? Also, anyone out there in a long-term relationship with someone who you slept with on a first date?

[ummmm]

No way. Never have and never will. Yes they are judged completely differently.

[Sgt.Rock]

Yes done it lots of times, sometimes the ladies have been more willing than me.

[cazzz1975]

no, definately not. these days people are judged quite similarly on it (neither is complementary)

[4getmenot]

I have done lots of times and not even really dates but I was young and a minx back then. I think woman can get much more of a bad rep for it. But then I never went round shouting my mouth off about any conquests. I think as you become older you realise to take it slow and get to know someone alot more first

[4getmenot]

as long as you're safe whats the harm in a bit of pleasure :-)

[joggerjayne]

No, never.

I like to know someone quite well before "it" happens.

But if the relationship gets that far, the guy will be very, very glad he waited.

[Sgt.Rock]

Why Jayne, you don't snore?

[daniela31]

Sleep with someone???...... or have sex??

Big difference if you ask me.

[Bbbananas]

Only once. And I did already know the guy. And it wasn't a one night stand as we went on to have a 6 month relationship and are still friends.
It was Christmas Eve, were had both just come out of a long term relationship, and yes - we were drunk. (Though not toooo drunk; obviously!)

With all my other relationships I have made them wait. Girls do get a reputation as 'easy' or slappers, whereas boys get a pat on the back & a notch on their bedpost.

[fliddy]

I personally think the girl (if she wants to gain trust and respect) should wait until at least the 3rd date.

[Sgt.Rock]

Dani - Looks like we were thinking the same.

[Jamie29]

No, I've never slept with a woman on a first date. Sex has been offered, but I'd rather wait.

[joggerjayne]

Sgt. Rock ... it's so long since I was in a relationship, I don't know if I snore or not ...

... (except when I'm p*ssed, cos everybody snores, and when my friends crash over after we've been out on the town my flat probably sounds like a pig farm).

I'll have to go to sleep with a dictaphone beside the bed one night.

[jkkerr]

Ahem....each of my 3 long-term relationships started with sex! (2.5 years/2.5 years/22 months).

Don't judge me (you can if you want, I don't care).

[phillipa.d]

jkkerr - Do you think if you had not slept with them straight away, you could get past the two and a half year mark?

Maybe you could have had one, seven year + relationship by now...

[daniela31]

Sgt.Rock....that's the bit I don't get either.
Why do people say 'Sleep'....when there is no sleep involved???
What about if you are outside? or in a car? Do you 'sleep' standing up??

The mind boggles!!

[Sgt.Rock]

Dani - It's a euphemism for s**g.

Got the red wine and chocs? Settee will be OK for me.

[daniela31]

Youare not allowed to go to sleep mind....
not when you are with me anyway *wink*
:-)

[Sgt.Rock]

Sorry, not fussed on watching DVDs all night? :-0

[daniela31]

That's ok babes......we could have a go at some new gymnastic moves I have just learnt.
:-)