27 year old Virgin

[kitesurfer]

Is it possible for a girl to be 27 and be a virgin and not bleed? How long should they bleed for? I mean lets say if the girl lost her virginity in the sea and then after walking back to her flat 20 minutes later and did it again and there was no blood is this feesable?

[Ethel]

She could have had a baby and still be a virgin.

If you have a very small member I don't suppose it would make any difference to you

[sara3]

sorry, I'd wandered off!

she was okay looking, but not a young 36.. but witty and a nice woman.

I can't answer your question.. it varies from woman to woman.

why are you asking, anyway??

[kitesurfer]

I dont know just some people swear blind their other halfs were virgins and I just dont want to believe it so quickly like an gullible silly person

[Ethel]

Haven't you got any self respect at all?

You have sex with a woman you don't trust enough to believe what she tells you. Why?

And if 'its only sex' why worry whether she's a virgin or not?

I hope she was fibbing because your attitude would be a big disappointment to any woman who 'saved herself' for the right man.

[Velvetee]

I'm not sure what the obsession is with having a virgin. It's very strange. I would have thought the modern man would want a partner who could participate in a fulfilling sexlife. We are no longer living in the 19th Century.

The two women I know who are virgins at 39 and 44, will probably remain so for life. Most mature, sensible men will be put off by women of that age who have had no sexual experience whatsoever.

[Ethel]

I hope mature and sensible men would show no interest whatsover in a partner's sexual history

[sara3]

were you the man? perhaps you weren't large enough to do the job properly!!

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i have never known of any instances where a virgin has never bled...

[QueenOfAmber]

but what if like, they were an ex umm exotic dancer? they might be more likely to cheat but i can see where ur coming from ethel.

[ummmm]

I didn't....

[kitesurfer]

I dont give a rats bottom if she was a Virgin or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But I do care if I was Lied to!!!!!!!


Gees louise

[Ethel]

Why have sex with someone you don't trust?

That's very cheap behaviour

[Ethel]

Maybe you need to read this:

http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/sex-no-ble eding-after-first-sex.html

I would really expect all 15 year old, of both sexes, to know the information in that answer.

[kitesurfer]

All I am saying is she told me she was a virgin and so did her male friends but it didnt feel any different and no blood........

I really dont care if she was or not but i do care if she lied.

[Ethel]

And you've been discussing it with your friends!

How old are you?

[Velvetee]

Kitesurfer, if she lied to you, was it perhaps because you may have given her cause to feel she was unworthy if she was not a virgin? I'm not sure why it should ever be an issue and why there was a need to discuss it in the first place really.

If you like someone and you are attracted to each other, then the number or lack of numbers shouldn't matter.

[kitesurfer]

Ok Ethel forget the bleeding I believe thaty now......


But why didnt it 'feel' any different? in fact I had less sensation than some other girls with a lot of experience.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, for once i disagree with Ethel :(
I think a guy should pay a lot of detail into the sexual exploits of his woman to be.
What she has got up to in her past, shows what the woman is like in general.
Some examples :-
She sleeps around a lot - has no respect for anyone or anything and thinks the world should revolve around them.
She has lots of one night stands - needs to feel wanted.
She wont have sex with you - she has been a sla88er in the past, and now is taking it out on you
I could go on all night, but had better not...

[kitesurfer]

LMAO velvetee

I really dont care but I think some cultures think that they should be a virgin to their spouse which is why I think some girls lie about it

[kitesurfer]

MrBEn well said old chap