27 year old Virgin

[kitesurfer]

Is it possible for a girl to be 27 and be a virgin and not bleed? How long should they bleed for? I mean lets say if the girl lost her virginity in the sea and then after walking back to her flat 20 minutes later and did it again and there was no blood is this feesable?

[Velvetee]

MrBen, does the same apply to a man then, should women look into a man's sexual past to know whether or not they will make decent partners depending on the numbers.

Kitesurfer, a vagina is a vagina, there would not be any kind of different sensation, except for perhaps tightness, but this is not set in stone either.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, kitesurfer, it seems that when you slept with this girl, all you was interested in was finding out if she was a virgin.
It doesnt seem like you had any feelings for her and was just using her.
If she did lie to you, then maybe she has every right to, as she was probably afraid of how you might react...

[kitesurfer]

No MrBen that is not the case too! I just want to determine if she lied to me. Simple as that. I didnt 'use' her at all

[MrBen5]

Ahhh, Velvetee, it doesnt matter how many partners she has had, its how she protrays herself.
A lady could have had many sexual partners, yet still be a lady. Or , she could have had the less sexual partners, but be a tramp, all depending on how she portrays herself and whether she is acting accordingly...

[sara3]

if you want my opinion, a virgin generally saves herself for a potentially romantic liaison. in the sea is not a potentially romantic liaison.

I can't imagine that anyone would want to lose their virginity in that way.

[MrBen5]

So kitesurfer, lets say she did lie, and she told you she lied because of how she thought you would react.
Would this put you off her, for lying for a genuine reason?
After all, she would have lied to make you feel much better...

[Velvetee]

Kitesurfer, you should never have taken this woman's virginity in the first place. Her first time should have been with someone special and caring. You obviously have no respect for her, afterall, you are on here lamenting the poor woman.

[kitesurfer]

well if I found out she lied I wouldnt know what to believe. A leopard never changes its spots!

[Prudentia]

yaaaaaaaaawn, time to close this post there is a lot of paint out there waiting to dry

[kitesurfer]

so does the sensation a man feels have any relevance then?

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, kitesurfer. It seems you have been hurt bad in the past by someone you loved.
This girl probably sensed that and so told the lie she did, as she might have thought you wouldnt sleep with her if she had told you about her past.
She obviously knows a lot about you...

[sara3]

okay kitesurfer.. the game's up!

[sn�gged]

'Bored in Hong Kong'.

[kitesurfer]

look whats all this 'the game is up'

I have said in other threads who I am. gees

[kitesurfer]

snagged I am not 'bored in hong kong'

I am going out this weekend, going wakeboarding and soon flying to Vietnam kitsurfing. y is that 'bored in hong kong'

Some people!

[jen78]

As ladies' bits go, we are all different.

Do you think us ladies should expect sex with every man to feel exactly the same? You all come in many different lengths and widths just like we do.

Do you think your bits felt different after you first slept with a woman?

Just because she may not have had full penetrative sex with a man before, doesn't mean she has not had other sexual experiences and other types of penetration.

Sexual experience is not limited to full penetrative sex.

[kitesurfer]

ok Jen best answer so far. do u think it is acceptable to lie thiough if it is your culture to be a virgin?

[weeal]

I thought kitesurfer was knobby !!! ???

[sara3]

post 57, and now we have cultural issues??!!

[kitesurfer]

no!! just lying issues thats all. LYING