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Best friend and boyfriend
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My best friend and boyfriend had an affair in June and now she's pregnant, wants me to sell the house we bought together and give them half (I paid for 3/4 of it!) and they want me to be the godmother of their child, should I say yes? I hate them both SO MUCH! Although I don't want to stir up things because he still has the key to my house and my Prada handbag and Gucci shoes are still at his house - what should I do?
Please help!
QueenOfAmber
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QueenOfAmber
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Dignity is the key here.
Get your things back - being very nice to everyone to ensure there is no suspicion.
Get your locks changed.
Ignore any contact with them, except through your solicitors.
Easier said than done I know - but there are relationship and legal issues here.
The legal issues can be rsolved through mutual legal advicec, and you should refuse to discuss the issues with either of them by phone, letter, or conversation.
The relationship issues need you to walk away with your head held high. Drop them both, and simply refuse to speak to them personally or by phone, e-mail, letter, anything.
This silence may be seriously hard to keep up, but when you look back you will be so glad you did it that way. It means no-one can ever say anything nasty about you, and you don;t tear yourself up in futile rows that simply don't go anywhere, and benefit no-one.
Shoes and handbag.
Locks changed.
Silence.
Do it - I speak from experience - it works.
Get your things back - being very nice to everyone to ensure there is no suspicion.
Get your locks changed.
Ignore any contact with them, except through your solicitors.
Easier said than done I know - but there are relationship and legal issues here.
The legal issues can be rsolved through mutual legal advicec, and you should refuse to discuss the issues with either of them by phone, letter, or conversation.
The relationship issues need you to walk away with your head held high. Drop them both, and simply refuse to speak to them personally or by phone, e-mail, letter, anything.
This silence may be seriously hard to keep up, but when you look back you will be so glad you did it that way. It means no-one can ever say anything nasty about you, and you don;t tear yourself up in futile rows that simply don't go anywhere, and benefit no-one.
Shoes and handbag.
Locks changed.
Silence.
Do it - I speak from experience - it works.
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I have to say I have noticed a few irregularities with Queen.
QOA - You did say you were 11, something to do with adopting Ethel but you couldn't because you are only 11. Then someone pointed that out in on another thread and you said your daughter was 11 not you! Now your 23, so you were 12 when you had your daughter then?
PS. Sorry for lack of links, I�m not sure how to do it tbh
QOA - You did say you were 11, something to do with adopting Ethel but you couldn't because you are only 11. Then someone pointed that out in on another thread and you said your daughter was 11 not you! Now your 23, so you were 12 when you had your daughter then?
PS. Sorry for lack of links, I�m not sure how to do it tbh
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