Best friend and boyfriend

[QueenOfAmber]

My best friend and boyfriend had an affair in June and now she's pregnant, wants me to sell the house we bought together and give them half (I paid for 3/4 of it!) and they want me to be the godmother of their child, should I say yes? I hate them both SO MUCH! Although I don't want to stir up things because he still has the key to my house and my Prada handbag and Gucci shoes are still at his house - what should I do?
Please help!
QueenOfAmber

[andy-hughes]

Dignity is the key here.

Get your things back - being very nice to everyone to ensure there is no suspicion.

Get your locks changed.

Ignore any contact with them, except through your solicitors.

Easier said than done I know - but there are relationship and legal issues here.

The legal issues can be rsolved through mutual legal advicec, and you should refuse to discuss the issues with either of them by phone, letter, or conversation.

The relationship issues need you to walk away with your head held high. Drop them both, and simply refuse to speak to them personally or by phone, e-mail, letter, anything.

This silence may be seriously hard to keep up, but when you look back you will be so glad you did it that way. It means no-one can ever say anything nasty about you, and you don;t tear yourself up in futile rows that simply don't go anywhere, and benefit no-one.

Shoes and handbag.

Locks changed.

Silence.

Do it - I speak from experience - it works.

[lesblue]

What should you do? Get a life. WIND-UP.

[QueenOfAmber]

Yeah, thanks for the answer but they kind of live down the road from me (SO B***** IRRITATING) and she works with me at the same place.
Why does this happen to me?

[QueenOfAmber]

les blue-u get a life
ur no help to me sooo..
get lost.
andy hughes thnx! :)

[ummmm]

Don't insult our intelligence and waste Andy's wise words.

[QueenOfAmber]

i'm not.
wht r u on about ummmmm????

[redcrx]

didnt you say recently youre only 14 or something, then last night asking for answers for your homework??

[Sgt.Rock]

Don't you have anything better to do than post untruths?

[ummmm]

^^^^^^^ see above ^^^^^

[QueenOfAmber]

im not im 23
y do u wanna know?????

[redcrx]

cos im wondering what 23 year old cant google for the answer to homework.

[Sgt.Rock]

Care to tell us who you were in a previous life?

[ummmm]

In a previous life it lived under a bridge...!!!

[Hazel104]

I have to say I have noticed a few irregularities with Queen.

QOA - You did say you were 11, something to do with adopting Ethel but you couldn't because you are only 11. Then someone pointed that out in on another thread and you said your daughter was 11 not you! Now your 23, so you were 12 when you had your daughter then?


PS. Sorry for lack of links, I�m not sure how to do it tbh

[QueenOfAmber]

maybe i lied about my age... so what?

[icemaiden]

Sorry I'm slightly confused here....Am I watching Jeremy Kyle or am I looking at the Answerbank Website on my Pc?

:0/

[daniela31]

Q O A. It seems you can't remember how old you actually are. you have given so many different ages. How about 12.?........you havn't tried that one yet.
And judging by your post it would seem you actually are a child, pretending to be an adult.

[QueenOfAmber]

i'm 56
i'm 86
i'm 25
i'm 61
who cares?

[redcrx]

not all all fussed about how old you are. But if you can lie about that then why would anyone believe any of your posts which, lets face it, have "fantasy" written all over them.