lesbians

[Sgt.Rock]

Given that lesbians don't like men, why more often than not does one of the women in the relationship look like a man? Doesn't this prove the more "feminine" lesbian in the relationship is really a frustrated hetrosexual at heart ?

[Sgt.Rock]

Lottie, I'm just commenting on the ones I know. But rather then them both looking like men it is just one of them.
And reading the news story about the lesbian soldier today, one looks like a woman, her partner looks like a man in make-up.

[jackthehat]

Only to you, Sgt. Rock............:o)

[LoftyLottie]

I have to admit Sgt.Rock that I have often wondered how a woman who is not attracted to men picks a female partner who looks like a man. I wasn't questionning your post or arguing with it. Its just that you said that 'more often than not one of the women in the relationship looks like a man'.
With most of the couples I see they both look like men!

[Ethel]

Perhaps it's the Neanderthal man attitude you are displaying that puts women off men?

You can't stereotype - every one is different, and every relationship is different.

[LoftyLottie]

It would make more sense to me if a lesbian couple were both feminine looking because they were not attracted to men.

I don't believe that a feminine lesbian, however, is really a frustrated hetrosexual at heart.

[Sgt.Rock]

"I have to admit Sgt.Rock that I have often wondered how a woman who is not attracted to men picks a female partner who looks like a man"
Lottie, that was the crux of my question. Not sure it doesn't apply to celebrities, what about Linday Lohan and her current partner.

[sqad617]

Sqad's classification of lesbians:

a) both attractive females
b) both unattractive females.

In group a) neither are frustrated hetero sexuals.
In group b) Sgt Rock is quite correct, one of them IS a frustrated hetero sexual.

Will clarify it you prefer, but the inference is obvious.

[jackthehat]

Thanks, Sqad.

But I think you'll find that your observations are subjective rather than objective.

JacktheHat's (subjective) classifcations;
a) both attractive females
b) both unattractive females.
c) one attractive the other unattractive.

In group a) both girls have got what they were looking for.
In group b) both girls have got what they are looking for.
In group c) both girls have got what they are looking for.

And I'll think you'll find that none of these groups require any sort of input or validation from heterosexual men, or women.

[sqad617]

Jake LoL...very clever LOL
BUT sexual attraction IS subjective, but still like your answer.

[andy-hughes]

This boils down to a simple fact -

you can't generalise .. at all ... ever.

[jno]

that implies a 100% success rate, jackthehat... that can't be true, I know lesbians sometimes fall out, I saw The Killing of Sister George.

[sqad617]

jno forgive me for answering for jake, as all he is saying is the they all got what they were looking for.

Success of their relationaship, as you have implied is quita another question

[jackthehat]

Quite right, Sqad..........:o)

[jno]

oh, I was hoping you'd found some lucky charm that could be passed on to straights...

[joggerjayne]

I agree with some posts

And not with others

Only occasionally do you find one "manly" partner in a lesbian relationship.

Sgt. Rock ... girls who like girls like pretty girls.

Just like guys who like girls like pretty girls.

[A.Guest]

I always believed that it was intended that a couple in a physical relationship should be possibly Adam and Eve - rather than Adam and Steve.

[HatlessJack]

Gosh !
How very original, A. Guest.
Did you think of that all by yourself ?
As this thread is about Lesbians...............how do your comments help ?

[A.Guest]

Hatless - perhaps you should change your name to Gormless.

My comments were not necessarily made to help, as you put it. But if the Adam and Steve scenario did not exist, neither would this thread.

[HatlessJack]

So if Adam and Steve did not exist as a couple Sgt. Rock wouldn't have posted thid thread ?!?

Rather tortuous logic, there A.Guest............

I already have a name, thanks.................and Gormless is already taken!