why people cheat (relationships)

[neenasatine]

my ex bf cheated on me three years ago because he loves another girl named Reena (not her real name to avoid further issue)..then ex bf broke up with me because of Reena...

but two years after our broke-up, Reena became pregnant because of the other guy. in other words, the father of REena's baby is not my ex-bf....

because of what happened, Reena and my ex-bf are now in separated ways ... as i can see REena is very happy right now and it seems very contended because of her baby...well good for her

but i really don't get it...why Reena choose to become unfaithful to my ex-bf? she got ex-bf already since my ex-bf left me because of her? isn't she happy?

[Lonnie]

It sounds as if you've still got a feelings for your ex, i'd say let go, he cheated on you, Cheat once, and that person will cheat again at some point in the future.

In answer to your question, I think most people toy with the idea, given the chance, but only some will do it, (the grass is always greener etc).

I believe, that if you value what you have in the present relationship, then no matter what the temptation, you don't.

[Velvetee]

I personally think, for some woman, it's a challenge to take a man from another woman, they get some sort of fulfilling buzz from it.

Maybe after Reena got your man, she realised he wasn't really for her and became bored, so simply just moved on. It happens all the time. I hope you don't take your cheating ex back, sounds like a bit of a love rat!

[bednobs]

probably for the same sorts of reasons most relationships break up. The circumstances surrounding the start of a relationship don't guaruntee it will be either a happy or long lastng one

[Ice.Maiden]

Well to add to Velvetee's reply, it's not surprising that this person's now split up with your ex. Whilst some women MIGHT get a buzz out of taking someone else's man, it's usually because they can't get anyone who's single. I doubt anyone'll last with her for very long.

[happyone2]

Perhaps she realised, that if he could be unfaithful to you, he could ultimately be unfaithful to her and this coupled with fndng out he wasnt such a catch anyway, made her decide to move on.

But why are you worried about her motives, and her happiness.......................... why not just think about your own recovery and getting away from him and possibly meeting someone else.

Lifes too short to spend time on other peoples relationships even if they involve an ex !!!

MOVE ON

[Charisse]

People cheat because they are not satisfied or happy in their relationship.

It is as plain and simple as that.

[no-knowledge]

why people cheat (relationships)



_________________________________
sometimes it is simply because of alcohol.

[neenasatine]

actually..i already met a guy named Justin who actually replaced my ex-bf in my heart (my ex-bf's name is Kris)...

unfortunately Justin died in Leukemia just 2 months ago... ='(

why faithful guys usually die early? ='(