i know where your coming from. i once made a video with my ex and he went on to show ot ito his freinds behind my back. i trusted him completely and never in my wildest dreams imagined he would do that to me. i was so hurt and embarrased and i didnt sleep for worry that he was gonna post it on internet etc. saying that though, one of his freinds , a few years down the line actually told me that no one thought it was clever of him and told him that he was a dick for doing that to me, andd that even a fight broke out because of it. he lost alot of respect for himself that day aswell. at the end of the day, its done now, you can only live and learn.