I agree with tamborine. Years ago, a guy started work at the same place as me. This was 3 months before I was due to leave. We hit it off straight away, and the thought of not seeing him again was making me edgy. On the last day, I went over to him and put a note in his hand, saying that I'd really enjoyed his company and would he care to go for a drink with me. He was delighted to, and we then went on a few dates. Nothing too great came of it, but we remain friends to this day. He came to my wedding, and I went to his. We might not be soul mates, but we ARE very good pals.