Do you regret your divorce?

[karma22]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1200 225/Why-I-I-suspect-separated-women-regret-div orcing.html

Was wondering after reading this article.

[4getmenot]

so she's kind of saying that even though she didnt love her husband she should have stayed with him just to have them special occasions at childrens weddings. I beleive married and even couple tht have been togather a long time and have children should try and do everything they can to save the relationship and make it last but If you dont love someone why stay with them.

[ummmm]

I've never been married so can't really comment.....but.....the reason I haven't married is because I believe it's for life.

I'm getting married soon :-)

[sqad617]

Haven't read the article, but I can imagine that a large percentage of women realise, how lucky they were and that the grass is not always greener.........etc.

Physical abuse is quite another matter though, but women do get "worked up" over infidelity by the husbands....I don't understand it myself.

[ummmm]

Sqad.....if my bloke was unfaithful....I'd chop his knob off.

[sara3]

I regret that my marriage didn't work, but I don't regret divorcing.

[rinkins]

I was wondering how to put it but I think you've got it right sara!

Morning!

[rinkins]

I don't think I could forgive infidelity either ummmm

[4getmenot]

its not always about just leaving to find a better life, most of the time its about being happy. But yes sqad there alot of woman and men that take things for granted and expect too much from a marriage and thats why it doesnt work because they want to the world.

[sqad617]

ummmm.......in that case, there would be very few men about with a knob...........and there would be a gush(!!!!) for the purchase of vibrators...................or JJ's index finger...LOL

[sara3]

morning rinkins :o)

it's sad. when I married I thought it would be for life, but things change, people change..

[MWB]

Oh, sqad. You are naughty!

:)

[rinkins]

Exactly!!

[redcrx]

As sara, i regret that my marriage didnt work out, i married expecting it to be for life.
But i dont regret the divorce at all, im much happier and my ex and me are great friends.
My life changed completely after the split and i wouldnt want it any other way.

[Robinia]

I think a large percentage of men probably realise too late how lucky they were & that the grass isn't greener, my ex did...like sara I regret that it didn't work but I realise I was silly for putting up with the bad stuff for far too long.
Having said that we get along very well & have no problems enjoying family occasions together.

[sqad617]

rinkins....is that answer for me or MWB...LOL

[rinkins]

sara actually! LOL

[sqad617]

Then why are the dating agencies full of divorced women looking for a "Male partner?"

Is it for sex?

Is it for "another" meaningful relationship.

Good morning robinia.

[Robinia]

good morning sqad...
I'm sure that just as many divorced men are actually looking for a partner, they just don't join agencies so readily.

[ummmm]

Sqad.....I'm confident with mine as he barely leaves my side. Bar going to work.

[karma22]

But if we know people change, people make mistakes and people cheat, why do so many people marry knowing its for life then they divorce say because one of them cheated?

I suppose people just think its going to be perfect, that infidelity will never happen to them.