Can I lie about sex?

[kalliemont]

I have had sex with two guys, but I am very regretful with my decision. I want to be abstinent again. I do not want to have sex until marriage, or until I am in love and with the guy for a very long time. Guys do not like that, they want sex. I was wondering.... is it okay if I tell the guy that I am a virgin, just so that he will not want or ask for sex? I know lying is never good.... but is it okay if I do?

[marval]

Well I suppose the guys will not know different, but why lie. Surely there is nothing wrong with the truth, if you are with a guy and they want sex just say no. It is your right after all, if you did lie to someone and then deciced you liked him, what then? I would be tempted to tell them the truth, if they laugh at you well they are not good enough for you anyway.

[CheekyChops]

Telling a guy that you are a virgin is not going to make him not want or ask for sex.

[daffy654]

A lot of blokes would consider a virgin a bigger challenge than a non virgin.......they would try harder to get you into bed,not back off and respect your celibacy

[Needschange]

Well umm if the person u have fallen for has strong feelings for you then he shoud understand y yu feel this way if he doesnt then he ay not be the right guy for you i would tell him how u r feeling and see how he feels i he understand you know he is a guy for u

[ReallyLegend]

It may be hard if you live in a small village or even a small town.

Also if the guys are part of a footy or rugby team there's no point lying as they've probably mentioned it by now

Not a very good idea starting a relationship on a lie.
You don't sound very mature?

Perhaps that's your problem?

[craft1948]

lie about bit!!...your lucky ....I can't even remember it....

[craft1948]

^ it not bit...

[MWB]

There is an operation available that entails having your hymen reattached, I believe.

Or just be like the vast majority of us & admit you made a mistake & don't beat yourself up about it.

[ummmm]

You can tell as many lies as you want as long as prepared for them to come back and bite you on the bum.

[tamborine]

dont say anything - your sex life is private!

Let bf guess - till he makes a commitment. Do you ask bf their sexual experience? 2 ppl either gel or they dont!

[poltergeist]

virgins are considered a delicacy for some so you may be shooting your self in the foot.

p x