I recently met a man and we started texting each other - no phone calls. The texts got onto sex and now the only time he calls me is when he is masturbating. He says he wants to see me and not just for sex. He is divorced with kids. I don't know what to do. He seems quite genuine, but I get the impression that all he DOES wants me for is sex.
does he ever attempt to be interested in you as a person (not in a physical sense) but in you , your interests, learning about you. or is it all mainly about sex?
Well I wouldn't hold out much hope - you text about sex and he calls you when he's masturbating so what makes you think he's genuine? Maybe he doesn't just want you for sex maybe he wants you to do a bit of washing, ironing and house work too.