Help me! Before I destroy my relationship!

[missj189]

I really need some help.. a couple of days agop my boyfriend was acting weirdly so i kept pestering him to tell me what was the matter. He told me that a new girl had started at his workplace and that all of his colleagues had said she was attractive. He swore to me that he doesnt find her attractive. when he told me i burst into tears and couldnt speak to him.. i feel betrayed and he hasnt even done anything. i am so scared that he will develop feelings for this person and it is killing me. i dont know what to do as he has never done anything to make me think he is unfaithful. Why cant i face the fact that he will find other people attractive? Why does it cause me so much pain to think that he does and why do i hate the thought of him spending time with that person. He tells me I need help. but i dont know what to do :'(