Embarassed

[bellaj-x]

I get really embarassed when im asked by guys when my last boyfriend is, as ive never had one. Whats the best answer that avoids you looking like your really weird or without sounding really cringeworthy.

[benny3008]

tell a little white lie. it cant hurt. :-)

[Bbbananas]

Don't say you've never had one - just say you don't want one (at the moment).

It's only girls of your age (? mid-teens) who think it's cringeworthy or embarrassing to admit to not having a boyfriend. Believe you me bella, the day will come when it matters not a jot. So long as you're quite happy with the situation, don't worry what anyone else thinks. x

[bellaj-x]

I know it doesnt matter, its just quite embarassing as everyone my age always flits from one boyfriend/girlfriend to the other, and so im worried people may think its because there is something wrong with me!

[benny3008]

yeh, thats what i meant to say, ooops my last answer was a typo, if a guy cant deal with the fact that you never had a boyfriend he is not worth the trouble.

[benny3008]

people are so judgemental, ignore it, live your life to the full and find the right person for you!

[Bbbananas]

There's nothing wrong with you at all - you're just choosy and believe me, there's nothing wrong in that.

[bellaj-x]

Thank you :) I know most guys wont actually have a problem with it, I just worry how it makes me look and i cant help but feel selfconcious about it!

[mollykins]

all the guys that suit me want to concentrate on their studies . . .

[Bbbananas]

It looks as though you're choosey and don't flit around from one boy to the other - believe me, boys like that. No-one wants a flibbertijibbit (oldie talk for slapper....!)

[mollykins]

but they said that to other girls aswell . . .

[benny3008]

it sounds to me like you have lack of confidence, forgive me if im wrong, i am the same, i am always worrying bout what people think of me but at the end of the day, what everyone else thinks doesn't matter, you know yourself better than anyone else, remember that and be happy! :-)

[123everton]

You're not weird, you're right.
An easy swerve, "don't ask me about my last one, ask me about my next one."
Concentrate on your studies, rely upon yourself, the rest will fall into place in time.

[Dee Sa]

just say -- I forgot all about him on the day I dumped him, they wont ask anything else .

[joggerjayne]

"I have yet to meet anyone who can afford my lifestyle"