Morning, tried the diazapam after plucking up the courage last night, it stung like hell when i used it, but that soon wore off, waited and waited and waited some more, then i fell asleep, lot of good that was, back to the drawing board i say lol. Hope your all ok, well better than me anyway. Take care. xxx
tamirra has had problems and the thread shouldnt be taken lightly clippetyclop -you werent to know .
tamirra -why not try in the morning when youre refreshed and dont have all day to think and fret about it-then I think you will get the full benefit of the diazepam.
you relaxed because you weren't excited. If you'd actually been with your man, you might or might not have succeeded in your aim, but you wouldn't have fallen asleep. You need both him and the pills.
tamirra... It didn't relax you too much, you just didn't follow through the whole way by communicating with your partner. You may not like some of the answers here but the emotional is not going to go away simply by inserting the drug and you can't blame the drug for 'relaxing' you too much. There are other issues at play.
China doll there are lots of issues with this, and im hoping eventually i will overcome them, but with help, your all helping me cope better with my emotions, but its such a huge hurdle ive got to get over, and i just cant see myself managing to do it, i think im going to fall at the first hurdle, which is the therapist when my app does arrive, as i think im going to clam up and not be able to talk.
Well forgive my bluntness but you ain't getting very far not talking about it either... Stuff usually hurts most before it gets better. You just have to decide how much better you want to get.
Ultimately, if you're happy with a celibate life then crack on with it but you 'd then have to accept that it's likely you would also be single in this choice of lifestyle (or it might take you a while to find a like minded person) as it's nto necessarilly the life your partner would choose.
I could live a celibate life easily, but i dont want to for the sake of my marriage, and i know damn well i have got to bring up the bad past to be able to put it right, i know i will do it one day but that day seems such a long way away.